"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nervous Sickness

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First and foremost im new here. But i wanted to see what you guys thought about my current problem.
Last year i was in a major car accident and ive been on all sorts of medications for complications that has arised from the event. But now i get extremely sick (nausea) when i get nervous, mainly having to do with girls. Ive never had this problem before hand i could talk to girls and chase girls fine before. I was planning on going to the bar tonight with some friends and with reading this forum ive been getting real anxious... and nervous. So now im feeling sick and im now thinking of backing out of tonight to just chill and take it easy.
I dont know if the pills are affecting me or is it just mind games. But anyonelse ever have similar problems? Ive been burning myself up lately and i dont know what to do. :mad:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Julian

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Dude i get sick and nervous before job interviews. its natural.

Just go and face your fears, you will be cool.
 

BeerMoney

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Ive actually threw up because of such occurances. It started within the last 2 months and in the middle of a relationship. 3 dates in a row with my 3 month gf ending up with me throwing up.... I dumped her thinkin maybe its her *shrug* but i still feel sick when getting nervous/anxious.
 

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mate

I dont really believe in internet therapy because you dont get all the details but have you been checked for PTSS? Sounds like a life changing event thats all and maybe you should look into it? Ask your GP for a referal to a psychiatrist, not psychologist if he/she thinks I could be right. If I am right, there is nothing for you to be ashamed of mate, and it IS treatable.
 

jakeyboy

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i think its a disease man... its not normal. i'd hate to imagine what i'd do everytime i sat for an examination and felt sick and had to run to the bathroom every couple of minutes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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