"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nervous Sickness

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First and foremost im new here. But i wanted to see what you guys thought about my current problem.
Last year i was in a major car accident and ive been on all sorts of medications for complications that has arised from the event. But now i get extremely sick (nausea) when i get nervous, mainly having to do with girls. Ive never had this problem before hand i could talk to girls and chase girls fine before. I was planning on going to the bar tonight with some friends and with reading this forum ive been getting real anxious... and nervous. So now im feeling sick and im now thinking of backing out of tonight to just chill and take it easy.
I dont know if the pills are affecting me or is it just mind games. But anyonelse ever have similar problems? Ive been burning myself up lately and i dont know what to do. :mad:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Julian

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Dude i get sick and nervous before job interviews. its natural.

Just go and face your fears, you will be cool.
 

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Ive actually threw up because of such occurances. It started within the last 2 months and in the middle of a relationship. 3 dates in a row with my 3 month gf ending up with me throwing up.... I dumped her thinkin maybe its her *shrug* but i still feel sick when getting nervous/anxious.
 

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I dont really believe in internet therapy because you dont get all the details but have you been checked for PTSS? Sounds like a life changing event thats all and maybe you should look into it? Ask your GP for a referal to a psychiatrist, not psychologist if he/she thinks I could be right. If I am right, there is nothing for you to be ashamed of mate, and it IS treatable.
 

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i think its a disease man... its not normal. i'd hate to imagine what i'd do everytime i sat for an examination and felt sick and had to run to the bathroom every couple of minutes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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