"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NERD vs. DJ / Can they co-exist?

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Hey guys, so can you be a nerd and still play the game?

I received a back-handed compliment the other day about this. On the one hand, I'm a nerd, but on the other, I still get "it"

Whatever!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by insidious
Hey guys, so can you be a nerd and still play the game?

I received a back-handed compliment the other day about this. On the one hand, I'm a nerd, but on the other, I still get "it"

Whatever!
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yep...
i'm a nerd (a bit) and i play the game well..

its easy.

a stereotypical nerd probably couldn't do so well..
 
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Yep, so true.

I find I enjoy portraying NERD but I'm comfy enough with that act to overcome it when I need to.
 
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These are two different ways of life.
 
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I know this forum should not get bogged down in semantics, but I think a clarification is in order.

NERD: maybe you dresss funny, maybe you act quirky. you aren't the coolest cat in the room.

but in your mind it doesn't matter cause you ultimately are comfortable in your own skin and you know the truth of the matter is, you can entertain just about any woman down to her skin...

Has nothing to do with your "suave" nature....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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