"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NERD vs. DJ / Can they co-exist?

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Hey guys, so can you be a nerd and still play the game?

I received a back-handed compliment the other day about this. On the one hand, I'm a nerd, but on the other, I still get "it"

Whatever!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by insidious
Hey guys, so can you be a nerd and still play the game?

I received a back-handed compliment the other day about this. On the one hand, I'm a nerd, but on the other, I still get "it"

Whatever!
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yep...
i'm a nerd (a bit) and i play the game well..

its easy.

a stereotypical nerd probably couldn't do so well..
 
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Yep, so true.

I find I enjoy portraying NERD but I'm comfy enough with that act to overcome it when I need to.
 
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These are two different ways of life.
 
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I know this forum should not get bogged down in semantics, but I think a clarification is in order.

NERD: maybe you dresss funny, maybe you act quirky. you aren't the coolest cat in the room.

but in your mind it doesn't matter cause you ultimately are comfortable in your own skin and you know the truth of the matter is, you can entertain just about any woman down to her skin...

Has nothing to do with your "suave" nature....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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