"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NERD vs. DJ / Can they co-exist?

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Hey guys, so can you be a nerd and still play the game?

I received a back-handed compliment the other day about this. On the one hand, I'm a nerd, but on the other, I still get "it"

Whatever!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by insidious
Hey guys, so can you be a nerd and still play the game?

I received a back-handed compliment the other day about this. On the one hand, I'm a nerd, but on the other, I still get "it"

Whatever!
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yep...
i'm a nerd (a bit) and i play the game well..

its easy.

a stereotypical nerd probably couldn't do so well..
 
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Yep, so true.

I find I enjoy portraying NERD but I'm comfy enough with that act to overcome it when I need to.
 
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These are two different ways of life.
 
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I know this forum should not get bogged down in semantics, but I think a clarification is in order.

NERD: maybe you dresss funny, maybe you act quirky. you aren't the coolest cat in the room.

but in your mind it doesn't matter cause you ultimately are comfortable in your own skin and you know the truth of the matter is, you can entertain just about any woman down to her skin...

Has nothing to do with your "suave" nature....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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