"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NERD vs. DJ / Can they co-exist?

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Hey guys, so can you be a nerd and still play the game?

I received a back-handed compliment the other day about this. On the one hand, I'm a nerd, but on the other, I still get "it"

Whatever!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by insidious
Hey guys, so can you be a nerd and still play the game?

I received a back-handed compliment the other day about this. On the one hand, I'm a nerd, but on the other, I still get "it"

Whatever!
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yep...
i'm a nerd (a bit) and i play the game well..

its easy.

a stereotypical nerd probably couldn't do so well..
 
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Yep, so true.

I find I enjoy portraying NERD but I'm comfy enough with that act to overcome it when I need to.
 
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These are two different ways of life.
 
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I know this forum should not get bogged down in semantics, but I think a clarification is in order.

NERD: maybe you dresss funny, maybe you act quirky. you aren't the coolest cat in the room.

but in your mind it doesn't matter cause you ultimately are comfortable in your own skin and you know the truth of the matter is, you can entertain just about any woman down to her skin...

Has nothing to do with your "suave" nature....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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