CostaDeSol
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Neil Strauss' (The Game author) recent interview
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TillTheEndOfTime
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His attitude in that article is basically that "The Game" and his philosophy is about total improvement as a man, not just "picking up" women.
I see people on here obsessed with how to increase their chances with women while seemingly ignoring every other facet of their lives. If your career is crap or nonexistent and you don't have any friends, you should work on getting everything together. The qualities that land you a successful job and friends are the same ones that will help you meet women.
Being successful with women is a lifestyle, not just an act you put on when you enter a club (which is why he is said that some people focus on "negging" & "peacocking").
I see people on here obsessed with how to increase their chances with women while seemingly ignoring every other facet of their lives. If your career is crap or nonexistent and you don't have any friends, you should work on getting everything together. The qualities that land you a successful job and friends are the same ones that will help you meet women.
Being successful with women is a lifestyle, not just an act you put on when you enter a club (which is why he is said that some people focus on "negging" & "peacocking").
flashpoint
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random thought: for a love life you need to love life.
CostaDeSol
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yeah same here. Its like they put getting laid before getting a life. I myself have been guilty of this at times.TillTheEndOfTime said:
CostaDeSol
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flashpoint said:
thats a nice line
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
evan12
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I think the game and mystery is an eye opener to a lot of guys who dont know the nature of woman , you rarely find articles help men to success in their relationship
it could be not that sold but it contain a lot of valid points
it could be not that sold but it contain a lot of valid points
JohnChops
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if you improve yourself, the women will just come. I did this, I find my life more enjoyable. Theres no point to just go out and get women if your life isnt together .... wheres the fun in that ?
Greasy Pig
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The point I take is that women are merely a byproduct of improving your life.
Even if you improve your life and still don't get laid as much as you'd like, you're still living a better life which is of benefit to you.
Even if you improve your life and still don't get laid as much as you'd like, you're still living a better life which is of benefit to you.