“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Negative Self Talk Inner Game part 2

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Daniel_March

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the way to do it is to replace the negative thoughts with positive ones. Cognitive psychologists have great techniques for tackling low self esteem. I like your video man, have a good day:)
 

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Good stuff my man. I dont suffer from low self esteem, however I think we all can suffer from not envisioning the person we want to become. Sometimes I'll get furious from a flake or non returned call or text, and I will let it influence my next action with said girl. When what I should be doing is enviosining how the person I want to become would act in that situation. The time is now, envision, act, say and do the things and person you want to be.
 

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Exactly :)

Remember that you are always in control, which means that the only person that can make you feel mad is yourself...
 
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