TheAsianLoverReturns
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Negative Self Talk Inner Game part 2
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Daniel_March
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the way to do it is to replace the negative thoughts with positive ones. Cognitive psychologists have great techniques for tackling low self esteem. I like your video man, have a good day
gimmeyofonenumba
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Good stuff my man. I dont suffer from low self esteem, however I think we all can suffer from not envisioning the person we want to become. Sometimes I'll get furious from a flake or non returned call or text, and I will let it influence my next action with said girl. When what I should be doing is enviosining how the person I want to become would act in that situation. The time is now, envision, act, say and do the things and person you want to be.
Daniel_March
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Exactly
Remember that you are always in control, which means that the only person that can make you feel mad is yourself...
Remember that you are always in control, which means that the only person that can make you feel mad is yourself...