TheAsianLoverReturns
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Negative Self Talk Inner Game part 2
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Daniel_March
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the way to do it is to replace the negative thoughts with positive ones. Cognitive psychologists have great techniques for tackling low self esteem. I like your video man, have a good day
gimmeyofonenumba
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Good stuff my man. I dont suffer from low self esteem, however I think we all can suffer from not envisioning the person we want to become. Sometimes I'll get furious from a flake or non returned call or text, and I will let it influence my next action with said girl. When what I should be doing is enviosining how the person I want to become would act in that situation. The time is now, envision, act, say and do the things and person you want to be.
Daniel_March
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Exactly
Remember that you are always in control, which means that the only person that can make you feel mad is yourself...
Remember that you are always in control, which means that the only person that can make you feel mad is yourself...