TheAsianLoverReturns
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Negative Self Talk Inner Game part 2
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Daniel_March
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the way to do it is to replace the negative thoughts with positive ones. Cognitive psychologists have great techniques for tackling low self esteem. I like your video man, have a good day
gimmeyofonenumba
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Good stuff my man. I dont suffer from low self esteem, however I think we all can suffer from not envisioning the person we want to become. Sometimes I'll get furious from a flake or non returned call or text, and I will let it influence my next action with said girl. When what I should be doing is enviosining how the person I want to become would act in that situation. The time is now, envision, act, say and do the things and person you want to be.
Daniel_March
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Exactly
Remember that you are always in control, which means that the only person that can make you feel mad is yourself...
Remember that you are always in control, which means that the only person that can make you feel mad is yourself...