i read the bible, i know everything.... but im taking time so that i dont come off as needy or as a wussy..... i talk to her at times when she doesnt know that i was gonna talk to her, but in turn she plays these games, im guessing shes very shy cuz the times i've talked to her was when she was alone.... but she wouldnt give me face around people.....
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
needhelp II
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
-HPNOTIQ-
Master Don Juan
If this is need help II...please link the original post so we can all see what you are talking about
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
First of all, read your posts out loud because it does not make sense it all.
Second of all, if you read the DJ bible and then you say you don't have any experience don't come here and wait for everyone to spoon feed you the info. If you know everything, then as the commercial goes " DO THE DO!" go out there and test your knowledge and fail!......... yes fail!! because no one strikes oil the first time, it takes alot of faliure and some rejections to actually develop a tight game.
Almost everyone fail at the begining, and whatever you want this girl or the next girl you will fail. Do what you think is right and then when or if you fail come back to this website and look up the DJ Bible and see what you did wrong. Then come back and ask a question. That's how its done.
Second of all, if you read the DJ bible and then you say you don't have any experience don't come here and wait for everyone to spoon feed you the info. If you know everything, then as the commercial goes " DO THE DO!" go out there and test your knowledge and fail!......... yes fail!! because no one strikes oil the first time, it takes alot of faliure and some rejections to actually develop a tight game.
Almost everyone fail at the begining, and whatever you want this girl or the next girl you will fail. Do what you think is right and then when or if you fail come back to this website and look up the DJ Bible and see what you did wrong. Then come back and ask a question. That's how its done.
this girl playin games..... she is tryin to make me jealous by talking to another guy... i caught her looking at me twice today while she was busy playin with her hair and talkin to the guy..... then after class she passed by in front of me talkin on the cell phone..... as if she is sayin im here but u cant get me... i need help do i go for the move tomorrow or it would seem as if she got to me by tryin to make me jealous, need help im lost.........
this is the original post..... and djdamage i do not want to be spoonfed... im asking for advice..... btw the djbible is what got me here to this particular siuation which im not sad about but happy that these tips actually work...........
this is the original post..... and djdamage i do not want to be spoonfed... im asking for advice..... btw the djbible is what got me here to this particular siuation which im not sad about but happy that these tips actually work...........
ok you answerd your own question. You know she is playing games by talking to another guy and making you jealous.
What you need to do is not let her play any games. Cut her off until she start to behave and show you some respect. And when you cut her off be indifference, don't get mad or frustrated and show her your emotions. Just be friendly, but when she starts playing games just walk away because you don't have time, Don't let her games control you be the man and cut the nonesense.
Next time she walks by, ignore her by placing your arm on the shoulder of another HB, that is the best solution for you, reverse the game by pretending you don't care and start getting other numbers.
What you need to do is not let her play any games. Cut her off until she start to behave and show you some respect. And when you cut her off be indifference, don't get mad or frustrated and show her your emotions. Just be friendly, but when she starts playing games just walk away because you don't have time, Don't let her games control you be the man and cut the nonesense.
Next time she walks by, ignore her by placing your arm on the shoulder of another HB, that is the best solution for you, reverse the game by pretending you don't care and start getting other numbers.