i read the bible, i know everything.... but im taking time so that i dont come off as needy or as a wussy..... i talk to her at times when she doesnt know that i was gonna talk to her, but in turn she plays these games, im guessing shes very shy cuz the times i've talked to her was when she was alone.... but she wouldnt give me face around people.....
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
needhelp II
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
-HPNOTIQ-
Master Don Juan
If this is need help II...please link the original post so we can all see what you are talking about
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
First of all, read your posts out loud because it does not make sense it all.
Second of all, if you read the DJ bible and then you say you don't have any experience don't come here and wait for everyone to spoon feed you the info. If you know everything, then as the commercial goes " DO THE DO!" go out there and test your knowledge and fail!......... yes fail!! because no one strikes oil the first time, it takes alot of faliure and some rejections to actually develop a tight game.
Almost everyone fail at the begining, and whatever you want this girl or the next girl you will fail. Do what you think is right and then when or if you fail come back to this website and look up the DJ Bible and see what you did wrong. Then come back and ask a question. That's how its done.
Second of all, if you read the DJ bible and then you say you don't have any experience don't come here and wait for everyone to spoon feed you the info. If you know everything, then as the commercial goes " DO THE DO!" go out there and test your knowledge and fail!......... yes fail!! because no one strikes oil the first time, it takes alot of faliure and some rejections to actually develop a tight game.
Almost everyone fail at the begining, and whatever you want this girl or the next girl you will fail. Do what you think is right and then when or if you fail come back to this website and look up the DJ Bible and see what you did wrong. Then come back and ask a question. That's how its done.
this girl playin games..... she is tryin to make me jealous by talking to another guy... i caught her looking at me twice today while she was busy playin with her hair and talkin to the guy..... then after class she passed by in front of me talkin on the cell phone..... as if she is sayin im here but u cant get me... i need help do i go for the move tomorrow or it would seem as if she got to me by tryin to make me jealous, need help im lost.........
this is the original post..... and djdamage i do not want to be spoonfed... im asking for advice..... btw the djbible is what got me here to this particular siuation which im not sad about but happy that these tips actually work...........
this is the original post..... and djdamage i do not want to be spoonfed... im asking for advice..... btw the djbible is what got me here to this particular siuation which im not sad about but happy that these tips actually work...........
ok you answerd your own question. You know she is playing games by talking to another guy and making you jealous.
What you need to do is not let her play any games. Cut her off until she start to behave and show you some respect. And when you cut her off be indifference, don't get mad or frustrated and show her your emotions. Just be friendly, but when she starts playing games just walk away because you don't have time, Don't let her games control you be the man and cut the nonesense.
Next time she walks by, ignore her by placing your arm on the shoulder of another HB, that is the best solution for you, reverse the game by pretending you don't care and start getting other numbers.
What you need to do is not let her play any games. Cut her off until she start to behave and show you some respect. And when you cut her off be indifference, don't get mad or frustrated and show her your emotions. Just be friendly, but when she starts playing games just walk away because you don't have time, Don't let her games control you be the man and cut the nonesense.
Next time she walks by, ignore her by placing your arm on the shoulder of another HB, that is the best solution for you, reverse the game by pretending you don't care and start getting other numbers.