"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i read the bible, i know everything.... but im taking time so that i dont come off as needy or as a wussy..... i talk to her at times when she doesnt know that i was gonna talk to her, but in turn she plays these games, im guessing shes very shy cuz the times i've talked to her was when she was alone.... but she wouldnt give me face around people.....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If this is need help II...please link the original post so we can all see what you are talking about:)
 

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Please rephrase the question in the form of a question.

Thanks.
 

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LOL. How often you have to say that in a day Vincent? Like 100 Times?
 

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Originally posted by Bussey
LOL. How often you have to say that in a day Vincent? Like 100 Times?
As often as is needed.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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First of all, read your posts out loud because it does not make sense it all.

Second of all, if you read the DJ bible and then you say you don't have any experience don't come here and wait for everyone to spoon feed you the info. If you know everything, then as the commercial goes " DO THE DO!" go out there and test your knowledge and fail!......... yes fail!! because no one strikes oil the first time, it takes alot of faliure and some rejections to actually develop a tight game.

Almost everyone fail at the begining, and whatever you want this girl or the next girl you will fail. Do what you think is right and then when or if you fail come back to this website and look up the DJ Bible and see what you did wrong. Then come back and ask a question. That's how its done.
 

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this girl playin games..... she is tryin to make me jealous by talking to another guy... i caught her looking at me twice today while she was busy playin with her hair and talkin to the guy..... then after class she passed by in front of me talkin on the cell phone..... as if she is sayin im here but u cant get me... i need help do i go for the move tomorrow or it would seem as if she got to me by tryin to make me jealous, need help im lost.........

this is the original post..... and djdamage i do not want to be spoonfed... im asking for advice..... btw the djbible is what got me here to this particular siuation which im not sad about but happy that these tips actually work...........
 

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ok you answerd your own question. You know she is playing games by talking to another guy and making you jealous.

What you need to do is not let her play any games. Cut her off until she start to behave and show you some respect. And when you cut her off be indifference, don't get mad or frustrated and show her your emotions. Just be friendly, but when she starts playing games just walk away because you don't have time, Don't let her games control you be the man and cut the nonesense.

Next time she walks by, ignore her by placing your arm on the shoulder of another HB, that is the best solution for you, reverse the game by pretending you don't care and start getting other numbers.
 
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