"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ughhhh im pretty pissed at myself i was at the gym tonight when a girl i knew from HS came up to me " i didnt see this girl in 5 years' and goes WOW you really look good, my first instinct was to act ****y funny blah blah and i ended up getting overloaded !!!! I did carry on a decent convo with her but i didnt even ask for the number or a date, now i want to see her again at the gym and ask her, what should i say?? should i still ask or did my window of opportunity close... i didnt even tell her she looked good back. :confused:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Happens to us all...I swear maybe a week before V-day, this little blond girl who I'd always looked at but never taken as a serious prospect (thought she had a boyfriend) starts acting all friendly and eventually we practically run into each other. She says "Hi" and I choke. Completely choke.

I dunno if there's still any IL there, but I finally learned an important lesson. Namely: She's JUST A GIRL. :)
 
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hahahahahahahahaha,

Heater, I couldn't resist to respond to your thread..did you notice your title "need to vent" and your name is "Heater" :D :D :D Was this an coincedence? I think it was!

Anyways, go after chick at gym as soon as you see her! Not a huge mistake, at least you now know she may have some interest.

When she told you, "You look good" It would have been a nice comeback for you to say, "you look better". Next time a girl tells you that say that and then get number.
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
When she told you, "You look good" It would have been a nice comeback for you to say, "you look better". Next time a girl tells you that say that and then get number.
Ok, that's a good one. I usually don't like using other people's lines, but I'm gonna use that one without shame. :cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
hahahahahahahahaha,

When she told you, "You look good" It would have been a nice comeback for you to say, "you look better". Next time a girl tells you that say that and then get number.
I would rather say: "You're also not not bad at all.." (and smile)
 

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lol thanks for the advice, didnt see her today. Hopefully i will see her before the weekend then try to set something up next week. Hopefully she says i look good again so i can use that line... it would have been brilliant had i thought of it ! lol
 

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If you see her again, just go up to her and be like you have a great body, tell me, how do you tone up...and use whatever bodypart you want.

Just start b.s.'n with her. Chances are if this girl comes up outta nowhere (especially since you havent seen her in 5 years) you got something now that she wants. A friend of mine said she saw some kid at the gym and he got huge since high school, she said she just went up to him got the number and did whatever.

Girls dig guys that are muscular...Not 287 pounds of muscle...Though it is impressive, its not what they want...Well not the majority at least.
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover

When she told you, "You look good" It would have been a nice comeback for you to say, "you look better". Next time a girl tells you that say that and then get number.
I'm sorry, but that response would be a lil lame.

A simple 'thank you' would go off alot better.... I like to use 'You're not too bad yourself'
 

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
I'm sorry, but that response would be a lil lame.

A simple 'thank you' would go off alot better.... I like to use 'You're not too bad yourself'

Bump!!! Never drool over a girl who gives you a compliment!! Just acknowledge it and # close.



PIMP
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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