"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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heater528

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Ughhhh im pretty pissed at myself i was at the gym tonight when a girl i knew from HS came up to me " i didnt see this girl in 5 years' and goes WOW you really look good, my first instinct was to act ****y funny blah blah and i ended up getting overloaded !!!! I did carry on a decent convo with her but i didnt even ask for the number or a date, now i want to see her again at the gym and ask her, what should i say?? should i still ask or did my window of opportunity close... i didnt even tell her she looked good back. :confused:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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squirrels

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Happens to us all...I swear maybe a week before V-day, this little blond girl who I'd always looked at but never taken as a serious prospect (thought she had a boyfriend) starts acting all friendly and eventually we practically run into each other. She says "Hi" and I choke. Completely choke.

I dunno if there's still any IL there, but I finally learned an important lesson. Namely: She's JUST A GIRL. :)
 
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hahahahahahahahaha,

Heater, I couldn't resist to respond to your thread..did you notice your title "need to vent" and your name is "Heater" :D :D :D Was this an coincedence? I think it was!

Anyways, go after chick at gym as soon as you see her! Not a huge mistake, at least you now know she may have some interest.

When she told you, "You look good" It would have been a nice comeback for you to say, "you look better". Next time a girl tells you that say that and then get number.
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
When she told you, "You look good" It would have been a nice comeback for you to say, "you look better". Next time a girl tells you that say that and then get number.
Ok, that's a good one. I usually don't like using other people's lines, but I'm gonna use that one without shame. :cool:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
hahahahahahahahaha,

When she told you, "You look good" It would have been a nice comeback for you to say, "you look better". Next time a girl tells you that say that and then get number.
I would rather say: "You're also not not bad at all.." (and smile)
 

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lol thanks for the advice, didnt see her today. Hopefully i will see her before the weekend then try to set something up next week. Hopefully she says i look good again so i can use that line... it would have been brilliant had i thought of it ! lol
 

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If you see her again, just go up to her and be like you have a great body, tell me, how do you tone up...and use whatever bodypart you want.

Just start b.s.'n with her. Chances are if this girl comes up outta nowhere (especially since you havent seen her in 5 years) you got something now that she wants. A friend of mine said she saw some kid at the gym and he got huge since high school, she said she just went up to him got the number and did whatever.

Girls dig guys that are muscular...Not 287 pounds of muscle...Though it is impressive, its not what they want...Well not the majority at least.
 

So pimp its scary

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover

When she told you, "You look good" It would have been a nice comeback for you to say, "you look better". Next time a girl tells you that say that and then get number.
I'm sorry, but that response would be a lil lame.

A simple 'thank you' would go off alot better.... I like to use 'You're not too bad yourself'
 

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
I'm sorry, but that response would be a lil lame.

A simple 'thank you' would go off alot better.... I like to use 'You're not too bad yourself'

Bump!!! Never drool over a girl who gives you a compliment!! Just acknowledge it and # close.



PIMP
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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