Forty0ztoFreedom
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Well, it sounds worse out of context. There was rapport there.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Need texting advice for a girl I met Saturday night
- Thread starter Funlol
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Huffman
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Ah, one more thing about texting: when you wanna arrange another meeting/date, never text, always call!
Why? She's not prepared for your call. Meaning she's not prepared to play you. When you propose a date then she will more likely give you an instant and and honest answer straight out.
If you text her then she will take her sweet time, thinking of how to control the situation, how to play her cards right... yeah, the same as you probably do.
AND IT MEANS YOURE NOT CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO EVEN CALL HER, YOU PANSY
Why? She's not prepared for your call. Meaning she's not prepared to play you. When you propose a date then she will more likely give you an instant and and honest answer straight out.
If you text her then she will take her sweet time, thinking of how to control the situation, how to play her cards right... yeah, the same as you probably do.
AND IT MEANS YOURE NOT CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO EVEN CALL HER, YOU PANSY
teacha
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Does calling a girl rather than texting really make a difference?
I think if she genuinely likes you she will respond whether you text/call/IM her, really don't think a call gonna make a difference here.
btw I don't think leaving a voicemail would have helped anyways since she's gonna see his missed call anyway & already has his number on her phone (from the earlier text). If she likes him, she will call/text, simple.
I think if she genuinely likes you she will respond whether you text/call/IM her, really don't think a call gonna make a difference here.
btw I don't think leaving a voicemail would have helped anyways since she's gonna see his missed call anyway & already has his number on her phone (from the earlier text). If she likes him, she will call/text, simple.
I know a couple girls who save a guy's number they don't really wanna talk to & not interested in as 'don't answer'.Jayer said:
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Huffman
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You have a point, but I just like calling better. Texting feels very unpersonal - and frankly I don't like the feel of you sending her a text, waiting forever for an answer. Then you arrange a time, text back and forth and back and forth... what a pain!
I think calling makes it easier for both her and you.
I think calling makes it easier for both her and you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.