Forty0ztoFreedom
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Well, it sounds worse out of context. There was rapport there.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Need texting advice for a girl I met Saturday night
- Thread starter Funlol
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Huffman
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Ah, one more thing about texting: when you wanna arrange another meeting/date, never text, always call!
Why? She's not prepared for your call. Meaning she's not prepared to play you. When you propose a date then she will more likely give you an instant and and honest answer straight out.
If you text her then she will take her sweet time, thinking of how to control the situation, how to play her cards right... yeah, the same as you probably do.
AND IT MEANS YOURE NOT CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO EVEN CALL HER, YOU PANSY
Why? She's not prepared for your call. Meaning she's not prepared to play you. When you propose a date then she will more likely give you an instant and and honest answer straight out.
If you text her then she will take her sweet time, thinking of how to control the situation, how to play her cards right... yeah, the same as you probably do.
AND IT MEANS YOURE NOT CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO EVEN CALL HER, YOU PANSY
teacha
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Does calling a girl rather than texting really make a difference?
I think if she genuinely likes you she will respond whether you text/call/IM her, really don't think a call gonna make a difference here.
btw I don't think leaving a voicemail would have helped anyways since she's gonna see his missed call anyway & already has his number on her phone (from the earlier text). If she likes him, she will call/text, simple.
I think if she genuinely likes you she will respond whether you text/call/IM her, really don't think a call gonna make a difference here.
btw I don't think leaving a voicemail would have helped anyways since she's gonna see his missed call anyway & already has his number on her phone (from the earlier text). If she likes him, she will call/text, simple.
I know a couple girls who save a guy's number they don't really wanna talk to & not interested in as 'don't answer'.Jayer said:
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Huffman
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You have a point, but I just like calling better. Texting feels very unpersonal - and frankly I don't like the feel of you sending her a text, waiting forever for an answer. Then you arrange a time, text back and forth and back and forth... what a pain!
I think calling makes it easier for both her and you.
I think calling makes it easier for both her and you.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.