Forty0ztoFreedom
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Well, it sounds worse out of context. There was rapport there.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Need texting advice for a girl I met Saturday night
- Thread starter Funlol
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Huffman
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Ah, one more thing about texting: when you wanna arrange another meeting/date, never text, always call!
Why? She's not prepared for your call. Meaning she's not prepared to play you. When you propose a date then she will more likely give you an instant and and honest answer straight out.
If you text her then she will take her sweet time, thinking of how to control the situation, how to play her cards right... yeah, the same as you probably do.
AND IT MEANS YOURE NOT CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO EVEN CALL HER, YOU PANSY
Why? She's not prepared for your call. Meaning she's not prepared to play you. When you propose a date then she will more likely give you an instant and and honest answer straight out.
If you text her then she will take her sweet time, thinking of how to control the situation, how to play her cards right... yeah, the same as you probably do.
AND IT MEANS YOURE NOT CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO EVEN CALL HER, YOU PANSY
teacha
Senior Don Juan
Does calling a girl rather than texting really make a difference?
I think if she genuinely likes you she will respond whether you text/call/IM her, really don't think a call gonna make a difference here.
btw I don't think leaving a voicemail would have helped anyways since she's gonna see his missed call anyway & already has his number on her phone (from the earlier text). If she likes him, she will call/text, simple.
I think if she genuinely likes you she will respond whether you text/call/IM her, really don't think a call gonna make a difference here.
btw I don't think leaving a voicemail would have helped anyways since she's gonna see his missed call anyway & already has his number on her phone (from the earlier text). If she likes him, she will call/text, simple.
I know a couple girls who save a guy's number they don't really wanna talk to & not interested in as 'don't answer'.Jayer said:
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Huffman
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You have a point, but I just like calling better. Texting feels very unpersonal - and frankly I don't like the feel of you sending her a text, waiting forever for an answer. Then you arrange a time, text back and forth and back and forth... what a pain!
I think calling makes it easier for both her and you.
I think calling makes it easier for both her and you.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.