Forty0ztoFreedom
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Well, it sounds worse out of context. There was rapport there.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Need texting advice for a girl I met Saturday night
- Thread starter Funlol
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Huffman
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Ah, one more thing about texting: when you wanna arrange another meeting/date, never text, always call!
Why? She's not prepared for your call. Meaning she's not prepared to play you. When you propose a date then she will more likely give you an instant and and honest answer straight out.
If you text her then she will take her sweet time, thinking of how to control the situation, how to play her cards right... yeah, the same as you probably do.
AND IT MEANS YOURE NOT CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO EVEN CALL HER, YOU PANSY
Why? She's not prepared for your call. Meaning she's not prepared to play you. When you propose a date then she will more likely give you an instant and and honest answer straight out.
If you text her then she will take her sweet time, thinking of how to control the situation, how to play her cards right... yeah, the same as you probably do.
AND IT MEANS YOURE NOT CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO EVEN CALL HER, YOU PANSY
teacha
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Does calling a girl rather than texting really make a difference?
I think if she genuinely likes you she will respond whether you text/call/IM her, really don't think a call gonna make a difference here.
btw I don't think leaving a voicemail would have helped anyways since she's gonna see his missed call anyway & already has his number on her phone (from the earlier text). If she likes him, she will call/text, simple.
I think if she genuinely likes you she will respond whether you text/call/IM her, really don't think a call gonna make a difference here.
btw I don't think leaving a voicemail would have helped anyways since she's gonna see his missed call anyway & already has his number on her phone (from the earlier text). If she likes him, she will call/text, simple.
I know a couple girls who save a guy's number they don't really wanna talk to & not interested in as 'don't answer'.Jayer said:
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Huffman
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You have a point, but I just like calling better. Texting feels very unpersonal - and frankly I don't like the feel of you sending her a text, waiting forever for an answer. Then you arrange a time, text back and forth and back and forth... what a pain!
I think calling makes it easier for both her and you.
I think calling makes it easier for both her and you.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.