"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need some techniques that help with Premature Ejaculation (PE)

I have a steady GF now and getting regular PIE. It seems I'm launching my rockets a bit early. Some things I've been doing is stopping/starting but my GF wants me to keep rockin. I usually stop, give some cunningus/analingus then start back like a retard hitting a screendoor.

Any other techniques or OTC drugs that will help prolong cumming?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thundersplace is a good forum for all that stuff. I doubt you'll find much reliable information here. Don't get too obsessed like some of the guys over there.. I have a feeling they spend all day whackin it and have no ***** for slappin it.

There's a lot of techniques that will help you last longer. Most of all it's going to come from experience. It's good that you're concerned about this.. most men overlook their sexual shortcomings and end up never pleasing their girl. When I started improving myself sexually and mentally, my ex went nuts in bed.

Kegels are a good technique to start. They are easy and offer quick results.
 

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WC2 said:
Thundersplace is a good forum for all that stuff. I doubt you'll find much reliable information here. Don't get too obsessed like some of the guys over there.. I have a feeling they spend all day whackin it and have no ***** for slappin it.

There's a lot of techniques that will help you last longer. Most of all it's going to come from experience. It's good that you're concerned about this.. most men overlook their sexual shortcomings and end up never pleasing their girl. When I started improving myself sexually and mentally, my ex went nuts in bed.

Kegels are a good technique to start. They are easy and offer quick results.
Thanks for the tips. I'm lurking a bit there now and all of the PE references are to Penis Enlargement, I'm talking about Premature Ejaculation. I wish their forum was open to new membership! Are there any other PE forums that's open to new members?
 

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Well that place has it all. Better sex, penis enlargement, sexual dysfunction. I believe you can sign up but it takes a few hours to confirm.
 

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Learn how to squeeze your PC muscle. I use to do the excercises, but now I can have multiple dry or partial orgasms, by just squeezing the PC muscle.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Learn how to squeeze your PC muscle. I use to do the excercises, but now I can have multiple dry or partial orgasms, by just squeezing the PC muscle.
What's multiple dry or partial orgasms? I been practicing Kegel's....I didn't even know it was called Kegels before....how long does it take to begin experiencing these improvements?
 

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WC2 said:
Well that place has it all. Better sex, penis enlargement, sexual dysfunction. I believe you can sign up but it takes a few hours to confirm.
Sorry, we have reached 100,000 members and this is the maximum number of members we are willing to accept at the moment. Registration is therefore suspended until further notice. Please check back again at a later date.
 

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Sorry, we have reached 100,000 members and this is the maximum number of members we are willing to accept at the moment. Registration is therefore suspended until further notice. Please check back again at a later date.
PM me if you want an E-Book that will help you out tons.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Try mixing intervals of oral sex in with intercourse. Also, sexual positions with her on top will allow you to last longer than you can with missionary or doggy.

You can find more good resources here: http://www.TotalEjaculationControl.info
Nah, like when she's on top I only last less than a minute may be 30 seconds, lol. She says she doesn't feel anything when she's on top.

I do mix it up with oral. Now when I pis at home I've decided to sit down and do kegels and I can practice better standing up at the urinal at work where I can spray and pray but it might seem wierd to other guys if i'm pissing in spurts.
 

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Nah, like when she's on top I only last less than a minute may be 30 seconds, lol. She says she doesn't feel anything when she's on top.

I do mix it up with oral. Now when I pis at home I've decided to sit down and do kegels and I can practice better standing up at the urinal at work where I can spray and pray but it might seem wierd to other guys if i'm pissing in spurts.
Dude, don't do your kegels while you're pissing. Starting and stopping like that can lead to incomplete emptying and bladder infections. The only reason you're supposed to do it while urinating the first time is to locate your PC muscles so that you can do them effectively whenever you want.
 

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AKA FLEX said:
Dude, don't do your kegels while you're pissing. Starting and stopping like that can lead to incomplete emptying and bladder infections. The only reason you're supposed to do it while urinating the first time is to locate your PC muscles so that you can do them effectively whenever you want.
Ok, gotcha. It's better to do them while i'm sitting in the office anyway.
 

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Ok, gotcha. It's better to do them while i'm sitting in the office anyway.
Yeah, do them everywhere: driving, work, before you go to sleep, etc. Mix up short ones where you squeeze and then release immediately with longer ones where you hold each squeeze for 15-30 seconds.

Not only do these give you a good foundation for increasing your stamina, but if you get your PC muscles strong enough your erections will be hard enough to hunt and kill things with.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There is another kegal exercise. Or something called balloning. Its where you masturbate and just before you feel like your about to cvm. You stop and hold it in. You do that a few times and it helps controll your ejactulations. It may also be a way of making your d!ck bigger..... It don't remember everything about it but, look it up.
 

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Phazuka said:
Thanks for the tips. I'm lurking a bit there now and all of the PE references are to Penis Enlargement, I'm talking about Premature Ejaculation. I wish their forum was open to new membership! Are there any other PE forums that's open to new members?

Thundersplace is great. I've been a member since 2003. There are other
forums as well. Try this one...
http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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