"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need some techniques that help with PE

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Need some techniques that help with Premature Ejaculation (PE)

I have a steady GF now and getting regular PIE. It seems I'm launching my rockets a bit early. Some things I've been doing is stopping/starting but my GF wants me to keep rockin. I usually stop, give some cunningus/analingus then start back like a retard hitting a screendoor.

Any other techniques or OTC drugs that will help prolong cumming?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thundersplace is a good forum for all that stuff. I doubt you'll find much reliable information here. Don't get too obsessed like some of the guys over there.. I have a feeling they spend all day whackin it and have no ***** for slappin it.

There's a lot of techniques that will help you last longer. Most of all it's going to come from experience. It's good that you're concerned about this.. most men overlook their sexual shortcomings and end up never pleasing their girl. When I started improving myself sexually and mentally, my ex went nuts in bed.

Kegels are a good technique to start. They are easy and offer quick results.
 

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WC2 said:
Thundersplace is a good forum for all that stuff. I doubt you'll find much reliable information here. Don't get too obsessed like some of the guys over there.. I have a feeling they spend all day whackin it and have no ***** for slappin it.

There's a lot of techniques that will help you last longer. Most of all it's going to come from experience. It's good that you're concerned about this.. most men overlook their sexual shortcomings and end up never pleasing their girl. When I started improving myself sexually and mentally, my ex went nuts in bed.

Kegels are a good technique to start. They are easy and offer quick results.
Thanks for the tips. I'm lurking a bit there now and all of the PE references are to Penis Enlargement, I'm talking about Premature Ejaculation. I wish their forum was open to new membership! Are there any other PE forums that's open to new members?
 

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Well that place has it all. Better sex, penis enlargement, sexual dysfunction. I believe you can sign up but it takes a few hours to confirm.
 

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Learn how to squeeze your PC muscle. I use to do the excercises, but now I can have multiple dry or partial orgasms, by just squeezing the PC muscle.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Evolution said:
Learn how to squeeze your PC muscle. I use to do the excercises, but now I can have multiple dry or partial orgasms, by just squeezing the PC muscle.
What's multiple dry or partial orgasms? I been practicing Kegel's....I didn't even know it was called Kegels before....how long does it take to begin experiencing these improvements?
 

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WC2 said:
Well that place has it all. Better sex, penis enlargement, sexual dysfunction. I believe you can sign up but it takes a few hours to confirm.
Sorry, we have reached 100,000 members and this is the maximum number of members we are willing to accept at the moment. Registration is therefore suspended until further notice. Please check back again at a later date.
 

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Sorry, we have reached 100,000 members and this is the maximum number of members we are willing to accept at the moment. Registration is therefore suspended until further notice. Please check back again at a later date.
PM me if you want an E-Book that will help you out tons.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AKA FLEX said:
Try mixing intervals of oral sex in with intercourse. Also, sexual positions with her on top will allow you to last longer than you can with missionary or doggy.

You can find more good resources here: http://www.TotalEjaculationControl.info
Nah, like when she's on top I only last less than a minute may be 30 seconds, lol. She says she doesn't feel anything when she's on top.

I do mix it up with oral. Now when I pis at home I've decided to sit down and do kegels and I can practice better standing up at the urinal at work where I can spray and pray but it might seem wierd to other guys if i'm pissing in spurts.
 

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Nah, like when she's on top I only last less than a minute may be 30 seconds, lol. She says she doesn't feel anything when she's on top.

I do mix it up with oral. Now when I pis at home I've decided to sit down and do kegels and I can practice better standing up at the urinal at work where I can spray and pray but it might seem wierd to other guys if i'm pissing in spurts.
Dude, don't do your kegels while you're pissing. Starting and stopping like that can lead to incomplete emptying and bladder infections. The only reason you're supposed to do it while urinating the first time is to locate your PC muscles so that you can do them effectively whenever you want.
 

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AKA FLEX said:
Dude, don't do your kegels while you're pissing. Starting and stopping like that can lead to incomplete emptying and bladder infections. The only reason you're supposed to do it while urinating the first time is to locate your PC muscles so that you can do them effectively whenever you want.
Ok, gotcha. It's better to do them while i'm sitting in the office anyway.
 

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Ok, gotcha. It's better to do them while i'm sitting in the office anyway.
Yeah, do them everywhere: driving, work, before you go to sleep, etc. Mix up short ones where you squeeze and then release immediately with longer ones where you hold each squeeze for 15-30 seconds.

Not only do these give you a good foundation for increasing your stamina, but if you get your PC muscles strong enough your erections will be hard enough to hunt and kill things with.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There is another kegal exercise. Or something called balloning. Its where you masturbate and just before you feel like your about to cvm. You stop and hold it in. You do that a few times and it helps controll your ejactulations. It may also be a way of making your d!ck bigger..... It don't remember everything about it but, look it up.
 

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Phazuka said:
Thanks for the tips. I'm lurking a bit there now and all of the PE references are to Penis Enlargement, I'm talking about Premature Ejaculation. I wish their forum was open to new membership! Are there any other PE forums that's open to new members?

Thundersplace is great. I've been a member since 2003. There are other
forums as well. Try this one...
http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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