"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need some techniques that help with PE

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Need some techniques that help with Premature Ejaculation (PE)

I have a steady GF now and getting regular PIE. It seems I'm launching my rockets a bit early. Some things I've been doing is stopping/starting but my GF wants me to keep rockin. I usually stop, give some cunningus/analingus then start back like a retard hitting a screendoor.

Any other techniques or OTC drugs that will help prolong cumming?
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thundersplace is a good forum for all that stuff. I doubt you'll find much reliable information here. Don't get too obsessed like some of the guys over there.. I have a feeling they spend all day whackin it and have no ***** for slappin it.

There's a lot of techniques that will help you last longer. Most of all it's going to come from experience. It's good that you're concerned about this.. most men overlook their sexual shortcomings and end up never pleasing their girl. When I started improving myself sexually and mentally, my ex went nuts in bed.

Kegels are a good technique to start. They are easy and offer quick results.
 

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WC2 said:
Thundersplace is a good forum for all that stuff. I doubt you'll find much reliable information here. Don't get too obsessed like some of the guys over there.. I have a feeling they spend all day whackin it and have no ***** for slappin it.

There's a lot of techniques that will help you last longer. Most of all it's going to come from experience. It's good that you're concerned about this.. most men overlook their sexual shortcomings and end up never pleasing their girl. When I started improving myself sexually and mentally, my ex went nuts in bed.

Kegels are a good technique to start. They are easy and offer quick results.
Thanks for the tips. I'm lurking a bit there now and all of the PE references are to Penis Enlargement, I'm talking about Premature Ejaculation. I wish their forum was open to new membership! Are there any other PE forums that's open to new members?
 

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Well that place has it all. Better sex, penis enlargement, sexual dysfunction. I believe you can sign up but it takes a few hours to confirm.
 

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Learn how to squeeze your PC muscle. I use to do the excercises, but now I can have multiple dry or partial orgasms, by just squeezing the PC muscle.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Evolution said:
Learn how to squeeze your PC muscle. I use to do the excercises, but now I can have multiple dry or partial orgasms, by just squeezing the PC muscle.
What's multiple dry or partial orgasms? I been practicing Kegel's....I didn't even know it was called Kegels before....how long does it take to begin experiencing these improvements?
 

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WC2 said:
Well that place has it all. Better sex, penis enlargement, sexual dysfunction. I believe you can sign up but it takes a few hours to confirm.
Sorry, we have reached 100,000 members and this is the maximum number of members we are willing to accept at the moment. Registration is therefore suspended until further notice. Please check back again at a later date.
 

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Sorry, we have reached 100,000 members and this is the maximum number of members we are willing to accept at the moment. Registration is therefore suspended until further notice. Please check back again at a later date.
PM me if you want an E-Book that will help you out tons.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Try mixing intervals of oral sex in with intercourse. Also, sexual positions with her on top will allow you to last longer than you can with missionary or doggy.

You can find more good resources here: http://www.TotalEjaculationControl.info
Nah, like when she's on top I only last less than a minute may be 30 seconds, lol. She says she doesn't feel anything when she's on top.

I do mix it up with oral. Now when I pis at home I've decided to sit down and do kegels and I can practice better standing up at the urinal at work where I can spray and pray but it might seem wierd to other guys if i'm pissing in spurts.
 

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Phazuka said:
Nah, like when she's on top I only last less than a minute may be 30 seconds, lol. She says she doesn't feel anything when she's on top.

I do mix it up with oral. Now when I pis at home I've decided to sit down and do kegels and I can practice better standing up at the urinal at work where I can spray and pray but it might seem wierd to other guys if i'm pissing in spurts.
Dude, don't do your kegels while you're pissing. Starting and stopping like that can lead to incomplete emptying and bladder infections. The only reason you're supposed to do it while urinating the first time is to locate your PC muscles so that you can do them effectively whenever you want.
 

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AKA FLEX said:
Dude, don't do your kegels while you're pissing. Starting and stopping like that can lead to incomplete emptying and bladder infections. The only reason you're supposed to do it while urinating the first time is to locate your PC muscles so that you can do them effectively whenever you want.
Ok, gotcha. It's better to do them while i'm sitting in the office anyway.
 

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Ok, gotcha. It's better to do them while i'm sitting in the office anyway.
Yeah, do them everywhere: driving, work, before you go to sleep, etc. Mix up short ones where you squeeze and then release immediately with longer ones where you hold each squeeze for 15-30 seconds.

Not only do these give you a good foundation for increasing your stamina, but if you get your PC muscles strong enough your erections will be hard enough to hunt and kill things with.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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There is another kegal exercise. Or something called balloning. Its where you masturbate and just before you feel like your about to cvm. You stop and hold it in. You do that a few times and it helps controll your ejactulations. It may also be a way of making your d!ck bigger..... It don't remember everything about it but, look it up.
 

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Phazuka said:
Thanks for the tips. I'm lurking a bit there now and all of the PE references are to Penis Enlargement, I'm talking about Premature Ejaculation. I wish their forum was open to new membership! Are there any other PE forums that's open to new members?

Thundersplace is great. I've been a member since 2003. There are other
forums as well. Try this one...
http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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