cali4nialove
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Anyone who is an expert with women and has experience please PM me. I need some serious advice with a girl and improving my game and life in general.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Need some serious help from an expert.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
thatfeel
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Just read all of PlayHer Man's posts and you'll know everything you need to know.
Long story short:
1. NEVER pander.
2. Don't waste time with low interest women and flakes
3. Spin plates
4. If a woman is interested she'll make it easy for you.
5. Stop wasting your time texting, only use it to set up meetings.
6. Grabbing a woman's ass will tell you more about her in 60 seconds than hanging out with her for hours will tell you.
7. No Contact saves your diginity, self-esteem, and ego, NOT your relationship.
Long story short:
1. NEVER pander.
2. Don't waste time with low interest women and flakes
3. Spin plates
4. If a woman is interested she'll make it easy for you.
5. Stop wasting your time texting, only use it to set up meetings.
6. Grabbing a woman's ass will tell you more about her in 60 seconds than hanging out with her for hours will tell you.
7. No Contact saves your diginity, self-esteem, and ego, NOT your relationship.
cali4nialove
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this is also very situation.thatfeel said:
I started reading the hs bible two days ago, I'm really working on fixing myself. But some things just kill my motivation and make me feel like ****. I need to talk to someone who can give me good advice on a specific situation.
cali4nialove
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i don't know man, there are lot's of things wrong with my game at this point. I'm trying to fix myself. I don't want to post a longass sob story for everyone to skip on here, I'd rather talk one on one with someone. I need to clear my mind, I haven't felt this ****ty in a long time.samspade said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
This stuff is great for your general attitude but isn't the best way to make inroads when actively trying to get better with women. I think it's something you should learn after you've got good with women, you create the standards once you've been with enough women to realise what you do and don't like for yourself rather than have it dictated to you. You want to live the best life for yourself, so if you're going to go against society, why then just adhere to someone elses set of guidelines, it's stupid. That's why I think some areas should be ignored until much later in development, guys shouldn't be have such rigid standards from day 1.thatfeel said:
For the OP, the best way to get better with women is to go out, detach yourself from the outcome and just meet as many women as you can. Meet them, enjoy their company, learn boundaries and get a real lust for f*cking.
VikingKing
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very good.thatfeel said:
VikingKing
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to thatfeel again.