cali4nialove
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Anyone who is an expert with women and has experience please PM me. I need some serious advice with a girl and improving my game and life in general.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
this is also very situation.thatfeel said:Just read all of PlayHer Man's posts and you'll know everything you need to know.
Long story short:
1. NEVER pander.
2. Don't waste time with low interest women and flakes
3. Spin plates
4. If a woman is interested she'll make it easy for you.
5. Stop wasting your time texting, only use it to set up meetings.
6. Grabbing a woman's ass will tell you more about her in 60 seconds than hanging out with her for hours will tell you.
Your situation is not unique. Apply the basics and you'll find out for yourself.cali4nialove said:this is also very situation.
I started reading the hs bible two days ago, I'm really working on fixing myself. But some things just kill my motivation and make me feel like ****. I need to talk to someone who can give me good advice on a specific situation.
i don't know man, there are lot's of things wrong with my game at this point. I'm trying to fix myself. I don't want to post a longass sob story for everyone to skip on here, I'd rather talk one on one with someone. I need to clear my mind, I haven't felt this ****ty in a long time.samspade said:All situations around here tend to be the same.
Do you have a scarcity mentality with regards to women? If so that's probably the root of your problem.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
This stuff is great for your general attitude but isn't the best way to make inroads when actively trying to get better with women. I think it's something you should learn after you've got good with women, you create the standards once you've been with enough women to realise what you do and don't like for yourself rather than have it dictated to you. You want to live the best life for yourself, so if you're going to go against society, why then just adhere to someone elses set of guidelines, it's stupid. That's why I think some areas should be ignored until much later in development, guys shouldn't be have such rigid standards from day 1.thatfeel said:Just read all of PlayHer Man's posts and you'll know everything you need to know.
Long story short:
1. NEVER pander.
2. Don't waste time with low interest women and flakes
3. Spin plates
4. If a woman is interested she'll make it easy for you.
5. Stop wasting your time texting, only use it to set up meetings.
6. Grabbing a woman's ass will tell you more about her in 60 seconds than hanging out with her for hours will tell you.
7. No Contact saves your diginity, self-esteem, and ego, NOT your relationship.
very good.thatfeel said:Just read all of PlayHer Man's posts and you'll know everything you need to know.
Long story short:
1. NEVER pander.
2. Don't waste time with low interest women and flakes
3. Spin plates
4. If a woman is interested she'll make it easy for you.
5. Stop wasting your time texting, only use it to set up meetings.
6. Grabbing a woman's ass will tell you more about her in 60 seconds than hanging out with her for hours will tell you.
7. No Contact saves your diginity, self-esteem, and ego, NOT your relationship.