cali4nialove
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Anyone who is an expert with women and has experience please PM me. I need some serious advice with a girl and improving my game and life in general.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Need some serious help from an expert.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
thatfeel
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Just read all of PlayHer Man's posts and you'll know everything you need to know.
Long story short:
1. NEVER pander.
2. Don't waste time with low interest women and flakes
3. Spin plates
4. If a woman is interested she'll make it easy for you.
5. Stop wasting your time texting, only use it to set up meetings.
6. Grabbing a woman's ass will tell you more about her in 60 seconds than hanging out with her for hours will tell you.
7. No Contact saves your diginity, self-esteem, and ego, NOT your relationship.
Long story short:
1. NEVER pander.
2. Don't waste time with low interest women and flakes
3. Spin plates
4. If a woman is interested she'll make it easy for you.
5. Stop wasting your time texting, only use it to set up meetings.
6. Grabbing a woman's ass will tell you more about her in 60 seconds than hanging out with her for hours will tell you.
7. No Contact saves your diginity, self-esteem, and ego, NOT your relationship.
cali4nialove
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this is also very situation.thatfeel said:
I started reading the hs bible two days ago, I'm really working on fixing myself. But some things just kill my motivation and make me feel like ****. I need to talk to someone who can give me good advice on a specific situation.
cali4nialove
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i don't know man, there are lot's of things wrong with my game at this point. I'm trying to fix myself. I don't want to post a longass sob story for everyone to skip on here, I'd rather talk one on one with someone. I need to clear my mind, I haven't felt this ****ty in a long time.samspade said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
This stuff is great for your general attitude but isn't the best way to make inroads when actively trying to get better with women. I think it's something you should learn after you've got good with women, you create the standards once you've been with enough women to realise what you do and don't like for yourself rather than have it dictated to you. You want to live the best life for yourself, so if you're going to go against society, why then just adhere to someone elses set of guidelines, it's stupid. That's why I think some areas should be ignored until much later in development, guys shouldn't be have such rigid standards from day 1.thatfeel said:
For the OP, the best way to get better with women is to go out, detach yourself from the outcome and just meet as many women as you can. Meet them, enjoy their company, learn boundaries and get a real lust for f*cking.
VikingKing
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very good.thatfeel said:
VikingKing
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to thatfeel again.