cali4nialove
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Anyone who is an expert with women and has experience please PM me. I need some serious advice with a girl and improving my game and life in general.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
this is also very situation.thatfeel said:Just read all of PlayHer Man's posts and you'll know everything you need to know.
Long story short:
1. NEVER pander.
2. Don't waste time with low interest women and flakes
3. Spin plates
4. If a woman is interested she'll make it easy for you.
5. Stop wasting your time texting, only use it to set up meetings.
6. Grabbing a woman's ass will tell you more about her in 60 seconds than hanging out with her for hours will tell you.
Your situation is not unique. Apply the basics and you'll find out for yourself.cali4nialove said:this is also very situation.
I started reading the hs bible two days ago, I'm really working on fixing myself. But some things just kill my motivation and make me feel like ****. I need to talk to someone who can give me good advice on a specific situation.
i don't know man, there are lot's of things wrong with my game at this point. I'm trying to fix myself. I don't want to post a longass sob story for everyone to skip on here, I'd rather talk one on one with someone. I need to clear my mind, I haven't felt this ****ty in a long time.samspade said:All situations around here tend to be the same.
Do you have a scarcity mentality with regards to women? If so that's probably the root of your problem.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
This stuff is great for your general attitude but isn't the best way to make inroads when actively trying to get better with women. I think it's something you should learn after you've got good with women, you create the standards once you've been with enough women to realise what you do and don't like for yourself rather than have it dictated to you. You want to live the best life for yourself, so if you're going to go against society, why then just adhere to someone elses set of guidelines, it's stupid. That's why I think some areas should be ignored until much later in development, guys shouldn't be have such rigid standards from day 1.thatfeel said:Just read all of PlayHer Man's posts and you'll know everything you need to know.
Long story short:
1. NEVER pander.
2. Don't waste time with low interest women and flakes
3. Spin plates
4. If a woman is interested she'll make it easy for you.
5. Stop wasting your time texting, only use it to set up meetings.
6. Grabbing a woman's ass will tell you more about her in 60 seconds than hanging out with her for hours will tell you.
7. No Contact saves your diginity, self-esteem, and ego, NOT your relationship.
very good.thatfeel said:Just read all of PlayHer Man's posts and you'll know everything you need to know.
Long story short:
1. NEVER pander.
2. Don't waste time with low interest women and flakes
3. Spin plates
4. If a woman is interested she'll make it easy for you.
5. Stop wasting your time texting, only use it to set up meetings.
6. Grabbing a woman's ass will tell you more about her in 60 seconds than hanging out with her for hours will tell you.
7. No Contact saves your diginity, self-esteem, and ego, NOT your relationship.