Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
Ok so I'm 20 and I've been talking to this 16 year old. Do you guys think its fine to pursue? Age of consent in MD is 16.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Need some opinions....
- Thread starter Paintballguy
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
F it, im gonna do it.... I'm tired of striking out with chicks and maybe if i get some, it will clear my mind. Plus, I dont care about what people think abou tme.
WC2
Master Don Juan
So basically you're lowering your standards to up your confidence?
You're not being a DJ bro; a DJ takes the initiative and does things cause he wants to. Not because it's going to make him "feel better." You're totally disregarding the fact that you're lowering your standards because you're excuse is you're still getting some.
Honestly, do what ya want but 16 is very young for a 20 year old.
You're not being a DJ bro; a DJ takes the initiative and does things cause he wants to. Not because it's going to make him "feel better." You're totally disregarding the fact that you're lowering your standards because you're excuse is you're still getting some.
Honestly, do what ya want but 16 is very young for a 20 year old.
I hope you're making this post on a public computer, without an IP # tracable to you (MU HU HA HA HAAAAH!)
Whoah, 16 is the age of consent? No wonder Baltimore is ahead of NY, LA, chicago, and every other city in the industraialized world when it comes to teen pregnancy
Whoah, 16 is the age of consent? No wonder Baltimore is ahead of NY, LA, chicago, and every other city in the industraialized world when it comes to teen pregnancy
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I used to live in Baltimore.
Curious fact:
When an 18 year old college student get pregnant, it's most likely from a college student.
When a High School student gets pregnant . . . it was most likely from a 20 something who could not possibly in his wildest dreams get sex elsewhere. (I read City Paper, too, dude.)
Curious fact:
When an 18 year old college student get pregnant, it's most likely from a college student.
When a High School student gets pregnant . . . it was most likely from a 20 something who could not possibly in his wildest dreams get sex elsewhere. (I read City Paper, too, dude.)
Delta
Master Don Juan
not everybody is or starts out as a dj....
lowering your standards in order to increase your confidence is an INCREDIBLY VALID way to up your confidence and mojo.... why do you think there are so many chubby chasers? ever hear of beer goggles? BABY STEPS... USING lesser chicks to SLINGSHOT your way higher and higher and higher... i get the feeling everyday that THIS is what lesser people are for for both sexes... and in the cruel jungle of life, that kind of heartlessness motivates "lessers" to be "mores". but in this case, it's not really a lowering of standards... it's just an age thing.
also, if age of consent is 16 - FING GO FOR IT! if it's LEGAL, what the f is the problem? "djs" engage in all kinds of (at least) amoral strategems and we're having qualms about something that THE STATE DEEMS TO BE ENTIRELY LEGAL?
also, it's only 4 years! especially if the guy is somewhat inexperienced, there may be little to no "advantage" that he's exercising over her and might actually end up that the opposite is true.
delta
lowering your standards in order to increase your confidence is an INCREDIBLY VALID way to up your confidence and mojo.... why do you think there are so many chubby chasers? ever hear of beer goggles? BABY STEPS... USING lesser chicks to SLINGSHOT your way higher and higher and higher... i get the feeling everyday that THIS is what lesser people are for for both sexes... and in the cruel jungle of life, that kind of heartlessness motivates "lessers" to be "mores". but in this case, it's not really a lowering of standards... it's just an age thing.
also, if age of consent is 16 - FING GO FOR IT! if it's LEGAL, what the f is the problem? "djs" engage in all kinds of (at least) amoral strategems and we're having qualms about something that THE STATE DEEMS TO BE ENTIRELY LEGAL?
also, it's only 4 years! especially if the guy is somewhat inexperienced, there may be little to no "advantage" that he's exercising over her and might actually end up that the opposite is true.
delta
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Shes legal.....Therefore....Game on!
Dont listen to this lot about saying your not going to be a DJ if you do....its bull. Shes fair play.
Dont listen to this lot about saying your not going to be a DJ if you do....its bull. Shes fair play.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
F*ck her. You want to & it's legal.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
How is it lowering my standards when she is hot as fvck?
sparky0000
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20 very young for 16? Uh, not in Maryland it isn't. Even politcians have joined in the fun. Geez, for some reason I see a huge jump in Maryland men heading to Riga for vacations. Actually, such age difference is not a big deal in the former Soviet Union.
http://wusatv9.com/news/news_article.aspx?storyid=51039
http://wusatv9.com/news/news_article.aspx?storyid=51039
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
im hanging out with her tonight.... definitely going for it all.
already made out with her the first time i met her.
already made out with her the first time i met her.
user_name
Banned
Pervet!Ur 20 and she is umm 16 she is a minor she is underage shes still a teenager,serious man can I report this guy???Paintballguy said:
P.S. You make me sick!I hope you get locked up in prison and get rape by blackmen&latinomen
Sick man!!!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Shut up dude, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with a 20 year old guy, dating a 16 year old girl. Hell, old guys date women that are young enough to be their daughters, so this is nothing. Saying that that's wrong is like saying a freshman in high school, dating a senior in high school is wrong, while it's not. Oh yeah, learn how to spell correctly, and how to use correct grammar.user_name said:
Kings_royalty
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This girl isn't even allowed to watch an R rated movie without a parent or guardian, doesn't that bother you a 'little'? If you are tired of striking out with chicks, maybe you should purchase some material to help you get your head on straight.
The answer to your 'strike out' problem is not between this 'young' girls legs bro. Once you hit it (hopefully you are smart enough to put on a rain coat), your 0 batting average with girls will still be there.
Just my 2 cents.
The answer to your 'strike out' problem is not between this 'young' girls legs bro. Once you hit it (hopefully you are smart enough to put on a rain coat), your 0 batting average with girls will still be there.
Just my 2 cents.