Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Paintballguy

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Ok so I'm 20 and I've been talking to this 16 year old. Do you guys think its fine to pursue? Age of consent in MD is 16.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sean O

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Personally, I wouldn't do it... but this is about what you want, yeah? So ask yourself this: would you rather pursue her, or avoid the dirty looks and gossip?
 

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F it, im gonna do it.... I'm tired of striking out with chicks and maybe if i get some, it will clear my mind. Plus, I dont care about what people think abou tme.
 

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So basically you're lowering your standards to up your confidence?

You're not being a DJ bro; a DJ takes the initiative and does things cause he wants to. Not because it's going to make him "feel better." You're totally disregarding the fact that you're lowering your standards because you're excuse is you're still getting some.

Honestly, do what ya want but 16 is very young for a 20 year old.
 

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I hope you're making this post on a public computer, without an IP # tracable to you (MU HU HA HA HAAAAH!)

Whoah, 16 is the age of consent? No wonder Baltimore is ahead of NY, LA, chicago, and every other city in the industraialized world when it comes to teen pregnancy
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Phyzzle

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I used to live in Baltimore.

Curious fact:

When an 18 year old college student get pregnant, it's most likely from a college student.

When a High School student gets pregnant . . . it was most likely from a 20 something who could not possibly in his wildest dreams get sex elsewhere. (I read City Paper, too, dude.)
 

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No need to flame him. Its his life he lives it how he wants. Just ask yourself this, "Is the juice worth the squeeze?".
 

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OK, Painballguy, if some 20 yr old doesn't hit her, it'll be some bald, desperate 33 yr old grinning cretin with money.

I see no moral problem with your pursuit.
 

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not everybody is or starts out as a dj....

lowering your standards in order to increase your confidence is an INCREDIBLY VALID way to up your confidence and mojo.... why do you think there are so many chubby chasers? ever hear of beer goggles? BABY STEPS... USING lesser chicks to SLINGSHOT your way higher and higher and higher... i get the feeling everyday that THIS is what lesser people are for for both sexes... and in the cruel jungle of life, that kind of heartlessness motivates "lessers" to be "mores". but in this case, it's not really a lowering of standards... it's just an age thing.

also, if age of consent is 16 - FING GO FOR IT! if it's LEGAL, what the f is the problem? "djs" engage in all kinds of (at least) amoral strategems and we're having qualms about something that THE STATE DEEMS TO BE ENTIRELY LEGAL?

also, it's only 4 years! especially if the guy is somewhat inexperienced, there may be little to no "advantage" that he's exercising over her and might actually end up that the opposite is true.

delta
 

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Shes legal.....Therefore....Game on!

Dont listen to this lot about saying your not going to be a DJ if you do....its bull. Shes fair play.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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20 very young for 16? Uh, not in Maryland it isn't. Even politcians have joined in the fun. Geez, for some reason I see a huge jump in Maryland men heading to Riga for vacations. Actually, such age difference is not a big deal in the former Soviet Union.

http://wusatv9.com/news/news_article.aspx?storyid=51039
 

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im hanging out with her tonight.... definitely going for it all.

already made out with her the first time i met her.
 

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Paintballguy said:
Ok so I'm 20 and I've been talking to this 16 year old. Do you guys think its fine to pursue? Age of consent in MD is 16.
Pervet!Ur 20 and she is umm 16 she is a minor she is underage shes still a teenager,serious man can I report this guy???


P.S. You make me sick!I hope you get locked up in prison and get rape by blackmen&latinomen


Sick man!!!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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user_name said:
Pervet!Ur 20 and she is umm 16 she is a minor she is underage shes still a teenager,serious man can I report this guy???


P.S. You make me sick!I hope you get locked up in prison and get rape by blackmen&latinomen


Sick man!!!
Shut up dude, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with a 20 year old guy, dating a 16 year old girl. Hell, old guys date women that are young enough to be their daughters, so this is nothing. Saying that that's wrong is like saying a freshman in high school, dating a senior in high school is wrong, while it's not. Oh yeah, learn how to spell correctly, and how to use correct grammar.
 

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This girl isn't even allowed to watch an R rated movie without a parent or guardian, doesn't that bother you a 'little'? If you are tired of striking out with chicks, maybe you should purchase some material to help you get your head on straight.

The answer to your 'strike out' problem is not between this 'young' girls legs bro. Once you hit it (hopefully you are smart enough to put on a rain coat), your 0 batting average with girls will still be there.

Just my 2 cents.
 
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