Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
Ok so I'm 20 and I've been talking to this 16 year old. Do you guys think its fine to pursue? Age of consent in MD is 16.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Need some opinions....
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
F it, im gonna do it.... I'm tired of striking out with chicks and maybe if i get some, it will clear my mind. Plus, I dont care about what people think abou tme.
WC2
Master Don Juan
So basically you're lowering your standards to up your confidence?
You're not being a DJ bro; a DJ takes the initiative and does things cause he wants to. Not because it's going to make him "feel better." You're totally disregarding the fact that you're lowering your standards because you're excuse is you're still getting some.
Honestly, do what ya want but 16 is very young for a 20 year old.
You're not being a DJ bro; a DJ takes the initiative and does things cause he wants to. Not because it's going to make him "feel better." You're totally disregarding the fact that you're lowering your standards because you're excuse is you're still getting some.
Honestly, do what ya want but 16 is very young for a 20 year old.
I hope you're making this post on a public computer, without an IP # tracable to you (MU HU HA HA HAAAAH!)
Whoah, 16 is the age of consent? No wonder Baltimore is ahead of NY, LA, chicago, and every other city in the industraialized world when it comes to teen pregnancy
Whoah, 16 is the age of consent? No wonder Baltimore is ahead of NY, LA, chicago, and every other city in the industraialized world when it comes to teen pregnancy
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I used to live in Baltimore.
Curious fact:
When an 18 year old college student get pregnant, it's most likely from a college student.
When a High School student gets pregnant . . . it was most likely from a 20 something who could not possibly in his wildest dreams get sex elsewhere. (I read City Paper, too, dude.)
Curious fact:
When an 18 year old college student get pregnant, it's most likely from a college student.
When a High School student gets pregnant . . . it was most likely from a 20 something who could not possibly in his wildest dreams get sex elsewhere. (I read City Paper, too, dude.)
Delta
Master Don Juan
not everybody is or starts out as a dj....
lowering your standards in order to increase your confidence is an INCREDIBLY VALID way to up your confidence and mojo.... why do you think there are so many chubby chasers? ever hear of beer goggles? BABY STEPS... USING lesser chicks to SLINGSHOT your way higher and higher and higher... i get the feeling everyday that THIS is what lesser people are for for both sexes... and in the cruel jungle of life, that kind of heartlessness motivates "lessers" to be "mores". but in this case, it's not really a lowering of standards... it's just an age thing.
also, if age of consent is 16 - FING GO FOR IT! if it's LEGAL, what the f is the problem? "djs" engage in all kinds of (at least) amoral strategems and we're having qualms about something that THE STATE DEEMS TO BE ENTIRELY LEGAL?
also, it's only 4 years! especially if the guy is somewhat inexperienced, there may be little to no "advantage" that he's exercising over her and might actually end up that the opposite is true.
delta
lowering your standards in order to increase your confidence is an INCREDIBLY VALID way to up your confidence and mojo.... why do you think there are so many chubby chasers? ever hear of beer goggles? BABY STEPS... USING lesser chicks to SLINGSHOT your way higher and higher and higher... i get the feeling everyday that THIS is what lesser people are for for both sexes... and in the cruel jungle of life, that kind of heartlessness motivates "lessers" to be "mores". but in this case, it's not really a lowering of standards... it's just an age thing.
also, if age of consent is 16 - FING GO FOR IT! if it's LEGAL, what the f is the problem? "djs" engage in all kinds of (at least) amoral strategems and we're having qualms about something that THE STATE DEEMS TO BE ENTIRELY LEGAL?
also, it's only 4 years! especially if the guy is somewhat inexperienced, there may be little to no "advantage" that he's exercising over her and might actually end up that the opposite is true.
delta
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Shes legal.....Therefore....Game on!
Dont listen to this lot about saying your not going to be a DJ if you do....its bull. Shes fair play.
Dont listen to this lot about saying your not going to be a DJ if you do....its bull. Shes fair play.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
F*ck her. You want to & it's legal.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
How is it lowering my standards when she is hot as fvck?
sparky0000
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20 very young for 16? Uh, not in Maryland it isn't. Even politcians have joined in the fun. Geez, for some reason I see a huge jump in Maryland men heading to Riga for vacations. Actually, such age difference is not a big deal in the former Soviet Union.
http://wusatv9.com/news/news_article.aspx?storyid=51039
http://wusatv9.com/news/news_article.aspx?storyid=51039
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
im hanging out with her tonight.... definitely going for it all.
already made out with her the first time i met her.
already made out with her the first time i met her.
user_name
Banned
Pervet!Ur 20 and she is umm 16 she is a minor she is underage shes still a teenager,serious man can I report this guy???Paintballguy said:
P.S. You make me sick!I hope you get locked up in prison and get rape by blackmen&latinomen
Sick man!!!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Shut up dude, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with a 20 year old guy, dating a 16 year old girl. Hell, old guys date women that are young enough to be their daughters, so this is nothing. Saying that that's wrong is like saying a freshman in high school, dating a senior in high school is wrong, while it's not. Oh yeah, learn how to spell correctly, and how to use correct grammar.user_name said:
Kings_royalty
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This girl isn't even allowed to watch an R rated movie without a parent or guardian, doesn't that bother you a 'little'? If you are tired of striking out with chicks, maybe you should purchase some material to help you get your head on straight.
The answer to your 'strike out' problem is not between this 'young' girls legs bro. Once you hit it (hopefully you are smart enough to put on a rain coat), your 0 batting average with girls will still be there.
Just my 2 cents.
The answer to your 'strike out' problem is not between this 'young' girls legs bro. Once you hit it (hopefully you are smart enough to put on a rain coat), your 0 batting average with girls will still be there.
Just my 2 cents.