Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Paintballguy

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Ok so I'm 20 and I've been talking to this 16 year old. Do you guys think its fine to pursue? Age of consent in MD is 16.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sean O

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Personally, I wouldn't do it... but this is about what you want, yeah? So ask yourself this: would you rather pursue her, or avoid the dirty looks and gossip?
 

Paintballguy

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F it, im gonna do it.... I'm tired of striking out with chicks and maybe if i get some, it will clear my mind. Plus, I dont care about what people think abou tme.
 

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So basically you're lowering your standards to up your confidence?

You're not being a DJ bro; a DJ takes the initiative and does things cause he wants to. Not because it's going to make him "feel better." You're totally disregarding the fact that you're lowering your standards because you're excuse is you're still getting some.

Honestly, do what ya want but 16 is very young for a 20 year old.
 

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I hope you're making this post on a public computer, without an IP # tracable to you (MU HU HA HA HAAAAH!)

Whoah, 16 is the age of consent? No wonder Baltimore is ahead of NY, LA, chicago, and every other city in the industraialized world when it comes to teen pregnancy
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Phyzzle

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I used to live in Baltimore.

Curious fact:

When an 18 year old college student get pregnant, it's most likely from a college student.

When a High School student gets pregnant . . . it was most likely from a 20 something who could not possibly in his wildest dreams get sex elsewhere. (I read City Paper, too, dude.)
 

blinkwatt

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No need to flame him. Its his life he lives it how he wants. Just ask yourself this, "Is the juice worth the squeeze?".
 

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OK, Painballguy, if some 20 yr old doesn't hit her, it'll be some bald, desperate 33 yr old grinning cretin with money.

I see no moral problem with your pursuit.
 

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not everybody is or starts out as a dj....

lowering your standards in order to increase your confidence is an INCREDIBLY VALID way to up your confidence and mojo.... why do you think there are so many chubby chasers? ever hear of beer goggles? BABY STEPS... USING lesser chicks to SLINGSHOT your way higher and higher and higher... i get the feeling everyday that THIS is what lesser people are for for both sexes... and in the cruel jungle of life, that kind of heartlessness motivates "lessers" to be "mores". but in this case, it's not really a lowering of standards... it's just an age thing.

also, if age of consent is 16 - FING GO FOR IT! if it's LEGAL, what the f is the problem? "djs" engage in all kinds of (at least) amoral strategems and we're having qualms about something that THE STATE DEEMS TO BE ENTIRELY LEGAL?

also, it's only 4 years! especially if the guy is somewhat inexperienced, there may be little to no "advantage" that he's exercising over her and might actually end up that the opposite is true.

delta
 

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Shes legal.....Therefore....Game on!

Dont listen to this lot about saying your not going to be a DJ if you do....its bull. Shes fair play.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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20 very young for 16? Uh, not in Maryland it isn't. Even politcians have joined in the fun. Geez, for some reason I see a huge jump in Maryland men heading to Riga for vacations. Actually, such age difference is not a big deal in the former Soviet Union.

http://wusatv9.com/news/news_article.aspx?storyid=51039
 

Paintballguy

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im hanging out with her tonight.... definitely going for it all.

already made out with her the first time i met her.
 

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Paintballguy said:
Ok so I'm 20 and I've been talking to this 16 year old. Do you guys think its fine to pursue? Age of consent in MD is 16.
Pervet!Ur 20 and she is umm 16 she is a minor she is underage shes still a teenager,serious man can I report this guy???


P.S. You make me sick!I hope you get locked up in prison and get rape by blackmen&latinomen


Sick man!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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user_name said:
Pervet!Ur 20 and she is umm 16 she is a minor she is underage shes still a teenager,serious man can I report this guy???


P.S. You make me sick!I hope you get locked up in prison and get rape by blackmen&latinomen


Sick man!!!
Shut up dude, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with a 20 year old guy, dating a 16 year old girl. Hell, old guys date women that are young enough to be their daughters, so this is nothing. Saying that that's wrong is like saying a freshman in high school, dating a senior in high school is wrong, while it's not. Oh yeah, learn how to spell correctly, and how to use correct grammar.
 

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This girl isn't even allowed to watch an R rated movie without a parent or guardian, doesn't that bother you a 'little'? If you are tired of striking out with chicks, maybe you should purchase some material to help you get your head on straight.

The answer to your 'strike out' problem is not between this 'young' girls legs bro. Once you hit it (hopefully you are smart enough to put on a rain coat), your 0 batting average with girls will still be there.

Just my 2 cents.
 
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