Evening guys looking for some advice, here's my story, im 28 and been in a steady relationship for 6 months now she is 28 also, i have been a regular visitor too this site after i got burned before this relationship but now my game is pretty solid which is why my new girl is head over heels for me.anyways the problem i have got is she is looking for something more serious eventually moving in together etc, she is fit, has a good job and so far she doesn't give me any grieve but after going red pill i cant get my head round that she is different this is my problem dont know if i should still be spinning plates as there is there are other girls intrested or should i commit too this girl any advice appreciated
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
LiveFreeX
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I think that's only a Canadian thing. Move in but have a really solid Plan B if stuff goes South, like a 6 month trip to Mexico with a pre-arranged place to stay.
CMNILS87
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Damn 6 months and she's talking about moving in. Sheesh I've known couples that have been together 2-3 years and moving in/marriage has never come up. You know after the move in another 6 months and she'll be coralling you around to every jewelry store to look at rings. I'm your same age and have no reason to settle down or move in with any gal. Keep frame and tell her you're not ready. You wear the pants, control it and cut it off at the knees.
You say you're in a steady relationship do exclusive or a main plate? If you're exclusive I'd advise against spinning plates. You can still talk to chicks, but the moral high ground would be to not cheat.
You say you're in a steady relationship do exclusive or a main plate? If you're exclusive I'd advise against spinning plates. You can still talk to chicks, but the moral high ground would be to not cheat.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
AllDay85
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Don't move in unless you're getting married within six months. This is a SERIOUS rule.
If she's really girlfriend material, you need to continue spinning plates. You're 28, not 35. Take it easy with that move-in talk. That never works for anyone.
By spinning plates you'll keep it fresh and keep her on her toes. I'm not telling you to bang a bunch of chicks, but cultivate options.