Evening guys looking for some advice, here's my story, im 28 and been in a steady relationship for 6 months now she is 28 also, i have been a regular visitor too this site after i got burned before this relationship but now my game is pretty solid which is why my new girl is head over heels for me.anyways the problem i have got is she is looking for something more serious eventually moving in together etc, she is fit, has a good job and so far she doesn't give me any grieve but after going red pill i cant get my head round that she is different this is my problem dont know if i should still be spinning plates as there is there are other girls intrested or should i commit too this girl any advice appreciated
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
LiveFreeX
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I think that's only a Canadian thing. Move in but have a really solid Plan B if stuff goes South, like a 6 month trip to Mexico with a pre-arranged place to stay.
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Damn 6 months and she's talking about moving in. Sheesh I've known couples that have been together 2-3 years and moving in/marriage has never come up. You know after the move in another 6 months and she'll be coralling you around to every jewelry store to look at rings. I'm your same age and have no reason to settle down or move in with any gal. Keep frame and tell her you're not ready. You wear the pants, control it and cut it off at the knees.
You say you're in a steady relationship do exclusive or a main plate? If you're exclusive I'd advise against spinning plates. You can still talk to chicks, but the moral high ground would be to not cheat.
You say you're in a steady relationship do exclusive or a main plate? If you're exclusive I'd advise against spinning plates. You can still talk to chicks, but the moral high ground would be to not cheat.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
AllDay85
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Don't move in unless you're getting married within six months. This is a SERIOUS rule.
If she's really girlfriend material, you need to continue spinning plates. You're 28, not 35. Take it easy with that move-in talk. That never works for anyone.
By spinning plates you'll keep it fresh and keep her on her toes. I'm not telling you to bang a bunch of chicks, but cultivate options.