Evening guys looking for some advice, here's my story, im 28 and been in a steady relationship for 6 months now she is 28 also, i have been a regular visitor too this site after i got burned before this relationship but now my game is pretty solid which is why my new girl is head over heels for me.anyways the problem i have got is she is looking for something more serious eventually moving in together etc, she is fit, has a good job and so far she doesn't give me any grieve but after going red pill i cant get my head round that she is different this is my problem dont know if i should still be spinning plates as there is there are other girls intrested or should i commit too this girl any advice appreciated
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LiveFreeX
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I think that's only a Canadian thing. Move in but have a really solid Plan B if stuff goes South, like a 6 month trip to Mexico with a pre-arranged place to stay.
CMNILS87
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Damn 6 months and she's talking about moving in. Sheesh I've known couples that have been together 2-3 years and moving in/marriage has never come up. You know after the move in another 6 months and she'll be coralling you around to every jewelry store to look at rings. I'm your same age and have no reason to settle down or move in with any gal. Keep frame and tell her you're not ready. You wear the pants, control it and cut it off at the knees.
You say you're in a steady relationship do exclusive or a main plate? If you're exclusive I'd advise against spinning plates. You can still talk to chicks, but the moral high ground would be to not cheat.
You say you're in a steady relationship do exclusive or a main plate? If you're exclusive I'd advise against spinning plates. You can still talk to chicks, but the moral high ground would be to not cheat.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
AllDay85
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Don't move in unless you're getting married within six months. This is a SERIOUS rule.
If she's really girlfriend material, you need to continue spinning plates. You're 28, not 35. Take it easy with that move-in talk. That never works for anyone.
By spinning plates you'll keep it fresh and keep her on her toes. I'm not telling you to bang a bunch of chicks, but cultivate options.