how can you tell being lead on to flirting? i know this chick whos pretty much everything im looking for in a girl, even enough to stay faithfull. the thing is this chick only shows interest when shes drunk, when we hang out were like friends but when she drinks she cant get her hands off me and when im not around she always askes for me of calls me to be where shes at. what do i make out of this? should i make a move or not?? if i should how the hell do i go about it????
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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So, you're asking us to aid you in your one-itis?
When she calls you "to be where she's at," tell her you've got company and you can't talk right now. Tell her this every time. Then get out there and hook up with ten girls -- at least dates if not making the beast with two backs -- before you so much as talk to her again. Then, after those ten, tell us that she's "everything you're looking for in a girl."
If she still is, then maybe one-itis is called-for.
When she calls you "to be where she's at," tell her you've got company and you can't talk right now. Tell her this every time. Then get out there and hook up with ten girls -- at least dates if not making the beast with two backs -- before you so much as talk to her again. Then, after those ten, tell us that she's "everything you're looking for in a girl."
If she still is, then maybe one-itis is called-for.
haha well the thing is among my friends and people that know me i the "slut" of the group, i actually did sleep with a few women to try to move on, but they dot compare. no matter how much ive tried they always have something i dont like. weve known each other for a few years but this type of behavior has only started recent. am i just bulls#itting myself here?