"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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need some help

nacho

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how can you tell being lead on to flirting? i know this chick whos pretty much everything im looking for in a girl, even enough to stay faithfull. the thing is this chick only shows interest when shes drunk, when we hang out were like friends but when she drinks she cant get her hands off me and when im not around she always askes for me of calls me to be where shes at. what do i make out of this? should i make a move or not?? if i should how the hell do i go about it????
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Desdinova

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It's likely that you're in the friends zone. How long have you known her?

Many women are more flirty when they're drunk, including the ones that you're in the friend zone with.
 

youknowtherest

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So, you're asking us to aid you in your one-itis?

When she calls you "to be where she's at," tell her you've got company and you can't talk right now. Tell her this every time. Then get out there and hook up with ten girls -- at least dates if not making the beast with two backs -- before you so much as talk to her again. Then, after those ten, tell us that she's "everything you're looking for in a girl."

If she still is, then maybe one-itis is called-for.
 

nacho

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haha well the thing is among my friends and people that know me i the "slut" of the group, i actually did sleep with a few women to try to move on, but they dot compare. no matter how much ive tried they always have something i dont like. weve known each other for a few years but this type of behavior has only started recent. am i just bulls#itting myself here?
 
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