how can you tell being lead on to flirting? i know this chick whos pretty much everything im looking for in a girl, even enough to stay faithfull. the thing is this chick only shows interest when shes drunk, when we hang out were like friends but when she drinks she cant get her hands off me and when im not around she always askes for me of calls me to be where shes at. what do i make out of this? should i make a move or not?? if i should how the hell do i go about it????
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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So, you're asking us to aid you in your one-itis?
When she calls you "to be where she's at," tell her you've got company and you can't talk right now. Tell her this every time. Then get out there and hook up with ten girls -- at least dates if not making the beast with two backs -- before you so much as talk to her again. Then, after those ten, tell us that she's "everything you're looking for in a girl."
If she still is, then maybe one-itis is called-for.
When she calls you "to be where she's at," tell her you've got company and you can't talk right now. Tell her this every time. Then get out there and hook up with ten girls -- at least dates if not making the beast with two backs -- before you so much as talk to her again. Then, after those ten, tell us that she's "everything you're looking for in a girl."
If she still is, then maybe one-itis is called-for.
haha well the thing is among my friends and people that know me i the "slut" of the group, i actually did sleep with a few women to try to move on, but they dot compare. no matter how much ive tried they always have something i dont like. weve known each other for a few years but this type of behavior has only started recent. am i just bulls#itting myself here?