how can you tell being lead on to flirting? i know this chick whos pretty much everything im looking for in a girl, even enough to stay faithfull. the thing is this chick only shows interest when shes drunk, when we hang out were like friends but when she drinks she cant get her hands off me and when im not around she always askes for me of calls me to be where shes at. what do i make out of this? should i make a move or not?? if i should how the hell do i go about it????
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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So, you're asking us to aid you in your one-itis?
When she calls you "to be where she's at," tell her you've got company and you can't talk right now. Tell her this every time. Then get out there and hook up with ten girls -- at least dates if not making the beast with two backs -- before you so much as talk to her again. Then, after those ten, tell us that she's "everything you're looking for in a girl."
If she still is, then maybe one-itis is called-for.
When she calls you "to be where she's at," tell her you've got company and you can't talk right now. Tell her this every time. Then get out there and hook up with ten girls -- at least dates if not making the beast with two backs -- before you so much as talk to her again. Then, after those ten, tell us that she's "everything you're looking for in a girl."
If she still is, then maybe one-itis is called-for.
haha well the thing is among my friends and people that know me i the "slut" of the group, i actually did sleep with a few women to try to move on, but they dot compare. no matter how much ive tried they always have something i dont like. weve known each other for a few years but this type of behavior has only started recent. am i just bulls#itting myself here?