how can you tell being lead on to flirting? i know this chick whos pretty much everything im looking for in a girl, even enough to stay faithfull. the thing is this chick only shows interest when shes drunk, when we hang out were like friends but when she drinks she cant get her hands off me and when im not around she always askes for me of calls me to be where shes at. what do i make out of this? should i make a move or not?? if i should how the hell do i go about it????
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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So, you're asking us to aid you in your one-itis?
When she calls you "to be where she's at," tell her you've got company and you can't talk right now. Tell her this every time. Then get out there and hook up with ten girls -- at least dates if not making the beast with two backs -- before you so much as talk to her again. Then, after those ten, tell us that she's "everything you're looking for in a girl."
If she still is, then maybe one-itis is called-for.
When she calls you "to be where she's at," tell her you've got company and you can't talk right now. Tell her this every time. Then get out there and hook up with ten girls -- at least dates if not making the beast with two backs -- before you so much as talk to her again. Then, after those ten, tell us that she's "everything you're looking for in a girl."
If she still is, then maybe one-itis is called-for.
haha well the thing is among my friends and people that know me i the "slut" of the group, i actually did sleep with a few women to try to move on, but they dot compare. no matter how much ive tried they always have something i dont like. weve known each other for a few years but this type of behavior has only started recent. am i just bulls#itting myself here?