"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need some help with a girl I dated before

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So I been dating a girl 2 months ago
And became more needy at texts.. She tried to friend zone and I not contacted her and told her I'm not going to be her friend..
She also contact couple times before but I tried to set up a date but she didnt want to... After a month she contacted me
and wrote:
Her:You in Chiang Mai??
Her:Why you don't tell me!!
Me:I dunno..You live at Bangkok
Her: ;) Smiley
Her: Haha
Me: Why you wanted me to tell you (I realize now I shouldn't sent it)
Her: Sorry...
Her: I was drunk
Her: Have fun :))
Me: You too :)



Now I not gonna contact her any further but would like to little bit explanation what happened and what I could do different
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She used a push pull manuver on your ass. And yes, she probably was drunk when she write you SMS.

Guys, stop doing SMS bull sht please. If it's whatsapp or viber use video. If it's an SMS read and do not reply to it for a while, then give call back if you think you should. To recap, use either phone or video, possibly you can also use voice messages or as they say voice chats in whatsapp, which is fine so long as girl is doing the same, if she is replying with text do what I said you sould do above.
 
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backseatjuan said:
She used a push pull manuver on your ass. And yes, she probably was drunk when she write you SMS.

Guys, stop doing SMS bull sht please. If it's whatsapp or viber use video. If it's an SMS read and do not reply to it for a while, then give call back if you think you should. To recap, use either phone or video, possibly you can also use voice messages or as they say voice chats in whatsapp, which is fine so long as girl is doing the same, if she is replying with text do what I said you sould do above.
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What you suggest me to do later on?
 
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Leave her alone.

Stop thinking about women in terms of deficit. When you do that women find creep in you. There is not a single girl in the world that can please you, there will always be something about every woman that turns you off. Start practising male hypergamy, date different women.

Leave this one alone.
 
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She friend zones you. You leave the trash at the curb and you run. Hotter girls are turning 18 everyday.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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