"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Need some help at the movies (when to make a move/how to kiss)
- Thread starter Brighty
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
true romance
Don Juan
Before the movie... Kino: you must hold her hands, touch her on the waist..she must feel comfortable...then you can proceed exploring further in the theater.
touch her thight..
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
but... in this situation i would probably start off by holding her hand. maybe some knee rubbing. and then keep escalating. And there is nothing to escalating other then JUST DOING IT! Then kiss her on the cheek. then the neck. at this point she will probably face you so you can kiss.
but i hate trying to give you a logical plan. it all depends on whats going on. Just man up soldier and take what you want! but most of all have FUN and enjoy her presence.
Maximus Rex
Banned
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
too much aggressive kino will ruin the spontaneity and the mood...
in other words, dont hold her hand during the whole movie... just here and there