"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Need some help at the movies (when to make a move/how to kiss)
- Thread starter Brighty
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
true romance
Don Juan
Before the movie... Kino: you must hold her hands, touch her on the waist..she must feel comfortable...then you can proceed exploring further in the theater.
touch her thight..
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
but... in this situation i would probably start off by holding her hand. maybe some knee rubbing. and then keep escalating. And there is nothing to escalating other then JUST DOING IT! Then kiss her on the cheek. then the neck. at this point she will probably face you so you can kiss.
but i hate trying to give you a logical plan. it all depends on whats going on. Just man up soldier and take what you want! but most of all have FUN and enjoy her presence.
Maximus Rex
Banned
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
too much aggressive kino will ruin the spontaneity and the mood...
in other words, dont hold her hand during the whole movie... just here and there