"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Need some help at the movies (when to make a move/how to kiss)
- Thread starter Brighty
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
true romance
Don Juan
Before the movie... Kino: you must hold her hands, touch her on the waist..she must feel comfortable...then you can proceed exploring further in the theater.
touch her thight..
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
but... in this situation i would probably start off by holding her hand. maybe some knee rubbing. and then keep escalating. And there is nothing to escalating other then JUST DOING IT! Then kiss her on the cheek. then the neck. at this point she will probably face you so you can kiss.
but i hate trying to give you a logical plan. it all depends on whats going on. Just man up soldier and take what you want! but most of all have FUN and enjoy her presence.
Maximus Rex
Banned
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
too much aggressive kino will ruin the spontaneity and the mood...
in other words, dont hold her hand during the whole movie... just here and there