"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Need some help at the movies (when to make a move/how to kiss)
- Thread starter Brighty
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
true romance
Don Juan
Before the movie... Kino: you must hold her hands, touch her on the waist..she must feel comfortable...then you can proceed exploring further in the theater.
touch her thight..
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
but... in this situation i would probably start off by holding her hand. maybe some knee rubbing. and then keep escalating. And there is nothing to escalating other then JUST DOING IT! Then kiss her on the cheek. then the neck. at this point she will probably face you so you can kiss.
but i hate trying to give you a logical plan. it all depends on whats going on. Just man up soldier and take what you want! but most of all have FUN and enjoy her presence.
Maximus Rex
Banned
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
too much aggressive kino will ruin the spontaneity and the mood...
in other words, dont hold her hand during the whole movie... just here and there