"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Whats up y'all...first post but been cruisin this place for a year now... and need some advice...

I recently grew my hair out (out of pure laziness, but people like it and its well-groomed) and will be going to a conference to see "the one (lol -- and a bunch of other single ladies) " that i havent seen in a long while

Im sure her, and all the rest of the people are gonna say 'OMG, your hair'. I need some badass comments to reply with...something that would make me sound slick, original and funny.

lol merci! :rockon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To be honest, you should work on being more spontanious. Learning some lines from here won't help you. Girls notice if you are just saying memorized lines. Lines are useless and stupid. Work on getting witty enough to think of a reply right on the spot.

Let's say you talk with a blonde girl.

An example:
Her: wow, your hair!
You: stop checking out my ass (line from here)

Okay, that's okay if you can bring it. CAN you bring it? Let's say you can bring it. That ass thing still hasn't anything to do with the situation at hand. This is much better:

Her: wow, your hair!
You: Yea, I thought of dying it in your color as well. What would you think of that? Would your haircut look cool on me?

And BAM, you have a conversation and you'll make her laugh because it was a little joke that involved her.


What you want to do is to build a house on quicksand without foundation. It'll be a sh*tty house that'll collapse and kill everyone. Build the foundation first (knowing how to respond by nature) and the house (witty lines) will build itself on top of it.

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Your thread title says it all: you need some crativity
 
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snowdog said:
Her: wow, your hair!
You: Yea, I thought of dying it in your color as well. What would you think of that? Would your haircut look cool on me?
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Even I laughed at that. :rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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