"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need some creativity

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Whats up y'all...first post but been cruisin this place for a year now... and need some advice...

I recently grew my hair out (out of pure laziness, but people like it and its well-groomed) and will be going to a conference to see "the one (lol -- and a bunch of other single ladies) " that i havent seen in a long while

Im sure her, and all the rest of the people are gonna say 'OMG, your hair'. I need some badass comments to reply with...something that would make me sound slick, original and funny.

lol merci! :rockon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To be honest, you should work on being more spontanious. Learning some lines from here won't help you. Girls notice if you are just saying memorized lines. Lines are useless and stupid. Work on getting witty enough to think of a reply right on the spot.

Let's say you talk with a blonde girl.

An example:
Her: wow, your hair!
You: stop checking out my ass (line from here)

Okay, that's okay if you can bring it. CAN you bring it? Let's say you can bring it. That ass thing still hasn't anything to do with the situation at hand. This is much better:

Her: wow, your hair!
You: Yea, I thought of dying it in your color as well. What would you think of that? Would your haircut look cool on me?

And BAM, you have a conversation and you'll make her laugh because it was a little joke that involved her.


What you want to do is to build a house on quicksand without foundation. It'll be a sh*tty house that'll collapse and kill everyone. Build the foundation first (knowing how to respond by nature) and the house (witty lines) will build itself on top of it.

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Your thread title says it all: you need some crativity
 

Apocalypse Now

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snowdog said:
Her: wow, your hair!
You: Yea, I thought of dying it in your color as well. What would you think of that? Would your haircut look cool on me?

Even I laughed at that. :rockon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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