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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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need some cologne advice

moneyisking

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just need to buy a cologne, but my knowledge in fragrance and cologne is almost as good as building a bridge, so I feel pretty lucky to have you guys give me a specified answer.

for preference, I like a fresh, inviting scent. I highly appreciate your recommendation. Thank you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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moneyisking

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lol to chop heads off? jk. I prefer to smell good especially in vulnerable times such as at the gym. axe is good, but I feel like cologne is more uppity and sh1t lol
 

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Daily Insanity said:
Cologne? Don't need it, just have game. I use axe :D
Everyone knows what axe smells like and everyone knows that it's the cheapest cologne money can buy. If you want to smell like poverty, go ahead and use it. One definite benefit of Axe is that it repels gold diggers as surely as bug spray repels mosquitos :D
 

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I am going to go ahead and use it, and bang girls whenever I please, as I do now, jealous? Anyway.

Considering this forum your mosquito analogy really makes no sense, since I DO use axe and I DO bang girls and I DO have dates. But being a troll sure runs in your reply's. Go ahead and follow me around puppy :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Axe is for preteens. Cologne is for lounge rats. No one uses it anymore and too much can hurt you (and a lot of people use too much and don't know it). Just use deodorant.
 

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Alright, I'll attempt to answer this question. I use Eternity and have for years. Then again, I've been an AFC for years. I don't think the cologne was the problem though. I'd suggest buying a Calvin Klein product as those tend to last longer. I'll squirt one on my neck and one on the shirt. The shirt will hold the scent all day. Not so for Polo.
 

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I use Royal Copenhagen Musk. It is classic, been around since the 70s. It seems to mix fairly well with my natural smell.
 

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Easy solution. Go here:

http://www.myperfumesamples.com/mps/mens-cologne-samples.html

Get yourself a bunch of samples for a few bucks, just go nuts, and see what you like. Use them, and and see how they work with your body chemistry. Note the ones you like and order the bottle. Easiest way to sample a shıtload of colognes for 10, 20 bucks.

Done.
 

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cool water
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bokanovsky

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I am going to go ahead and use it, and bang girls whenever I please, as I do now, jealous? Anyway.

Considering this forum your mosquito analogy really makes no sense, since I DO use axe and I DO bang girls and I DO have dates. But being a troll sure runs in your reply's. Go ahead and follow me around puppy :D
Lighten up junior. It was a joke.
 

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About 95% of women are too self-centered and stupid to consciously think anything beyond "are you wearing perfume?" However, they unconsciously note that you wear cologne and therefore have some money to burn.

A man wears cologne for the same reason he wears a watch. It's not a necessity anymore -- we don't have to bury the nose in a scented handkerchief to pass through open sewers and mountains of horse droppings. Men accessorize as an introduction. It's like presenting a business card. Wearing cologne says "I mean business."

Usually only married women recognize the different men's fragrances; the single ones never shop for men. There really aren't that many distinctive perfume smells. A few major brands dominate each niche. Citrus scents are the most common both for women's skin lotions and for men's colognes. If you're trying to smell like all the other club rats, definitely do wear citrus. Every man should have a bottle of some citrussy-smelling stuff for when he needs a One Night Stand. OP, I think that's what you mean when you say "a fresh, inviting scent." Citrus is so commonplace that any department store brand is as good as any other.

Otherwise, there's no advantage in smelling like everyone else. I advise going old school. Try out the classic incense or musk scents.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Gambler

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moneyisking said:
For preference, I like a fresh, inviting scent.
Go to your local store and sample some Nautica or Nautica Blue. It's gold in a bottle, baby.
 

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My go to was Gucci Envy. Now I keep a little in the last bottle of it that I have for special occasions. Women would compliment me all day when I was wearing it, and complain when I was wearing something else.

It's discontinued since 2011 though, but can be bought online... For about 5X what it used to cost!

Now I stick mostly with Armani Code (winter/dressed up scent) or Kenneth Cole Reaction (summer/dressed down scent).

I'm not big on going overboard with Cologne. 1 or 2 sprays.

Different scents smell different on different people's bodies though. I'd suggest doing what VladPatton suggested though, and see which colognes net you the most compliments...

If women aren't complimenting you - - - do a better job of meeting more :)
 

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Daily Insanity said:
Cologne? Don't need it, just have game. I use axe :D

Real talk, that hurricane axe smells good like hella good

I can't seem to find it in stores anymore.
 
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moneyisking said:
just need to buy cologne
No way bro, I won't sell you the city I am living in.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
Real talk, that hurricane axe smells good like hella good

I can't seem to find it in stores anymore.

Don't get the anti-cologne people. Chicks like a guy with good cologne

Axe to me is like spraying yourself with febreeze, and I think it's way too overpowering. To me it was only good back in high school after gym class if you couldn't shower some guys I knew would spray themselves with that
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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