What do you mean?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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- Thread starter captain55
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
There are actually plenty of decent single mums who aren't wanting to fvck their ex in the next 5 minutes. However ibgenerally do find them waste of time because they tend to be too close to the kid and sooner or later they want you to take on the provider role. It always seems to end up with you paying for another man's kid. I assume they are getting the child support and just lying to you about it. Although that is not always the case if the dad is in another country
speed dawg
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You didn't say any of that earlier. From your original post it seemed like she was very neutral regarding you. Even still, sending you pics without actually being with you screams of an attention wh*re. I'd be willing to bet she's not nearly as busy as she tells you she is.
You want to give her the ultimate test? Tell her to come over to your place this Friday with some wine, and say you are cooking dinner. If she comes, she wants to f*ck.
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Ever read "the game." By Neil Strauss???
Tidbits of game are there. Its changed since but, the point is running every prospect, every lead through your funnel.
No matter how weak the #, always swing.
Balls deep or next.
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You can't fvck a girl when her dad has a chain on her vagina. If she's interested, she'll break the chain and put her school books away.
Don't waste your time and move on.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Looking for an original thought from you. Still looking.