What do you mean?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Need some advice with this
- Thread starter captain55
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There are actually plenty of decent single mums who aren't wanting to fvck their ex in the next 5 minutes. However ibgenerally do find them waste of time because they tend to be too close to the kid and sooner or later they want you to take on the provider role. It always seems to end up with you paying for another man's kid. I assume they are getting the child support and just lying to you about it. Although that is not always the case if the dad is in another country
speed dawg
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You didn't say any of that earlier. From your original post it seemed like she was very neutral regarding you. Even still, sending you pics without actually being with you screams of an attention wh*re. I'd be willing to bet she's not nearly as busy as she tells you she is.
You want to give her the ultimate test? Tell her to come over to your place this Friday with some wine, and say you are cooking dinner. If she comes, she wants to f*ck.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Ever read "the game." By Neil Strauss???
Tidbits of game are there. Its changed since but, the point is running every prospect, every lead through your funnel.
No matter how weak the #, always swing.
Balls deep or next.
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You can't fvck a girl when her dad has a chain on her vagina. If she's interested, she'll break the chain and put her school books away.
Don't waste your time and move on.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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