What do you mean?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Need some advice with this
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
There are actually plenty of decent single mums who aren't wanting to fvck their ex in the next 5 minutes. However ibgenerally do find them waste of time because they tend to be too close to the kid and sooner or later they want you to take on the provider role. It always seems to end up with you paying for another man's kid. I assume they are getting the child support and just lying to you about it. Although that is not always the case if the dad is in another country
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You didn't say any of that earlier. From your original post it seemed like she was very neutral regarding you. Even still, sending you pics without actually being with you screams of an attention wh*re. I'd be willing to bet she's not nearly as busy as she tells you she is.
You want to give her the ultimate test? Tell her to come over to your place this Friday with some wine, and say you are cooking dinner. If she comes, she wants to f*ck.
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Ever read "the game." By Neil Strauss???
Tidbits of game are there. Its changed since but, the point is running every prospect, every lead through your funnel.
No matter how weak the #, always swing.
Balls deep or next.
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You can't fvck a girl when her dad has a chain on her vagina. If she's interested, she'll break the chain and put her school books away.
Don't waste your time and move on.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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